Secret Sandman

Dating and meeting people these days seems like it has become a chore. The dating apps have made it adversarial and competitive. I say we go back to meeting people in person, having fun and leaving those egos back in 2025.

• If this made you laugh...you're invited!
• Is this cringe? Only if you didn't grow up in the 90s.
• A singles event for people who hate "networking" style singles events!
• If you have EVER quoted a Sandler movie, this is the event for you.

I Believe Adam Sandler is the ultimate symbol of love. He has been married to the love of his life for over 20 years. He has sustained meaningful friendships throughout his life. All of his movies have a love story. At Secret Sandman we aim to make the Sandman the modern day Cupid who brings together likeminded weirdos to meet, cut loose and maybe find love or at least a new friend.

Secret Sandman hosts an Adam Sandler themed singles event every Monday. Dress up as your favorite Sandler character or his love interest, meet cool people, pickup some swag, and rock out to The Secret Sandman playlist. We will bring back the fun of dating in person with some of that Secret Sandler Sauce. Join us and RSVP to our next themed singles event today!

Who is the Secret Sandman: He’s funny without being cruel, successful without being flashy, and confident without needing to be competitive. He offers emotional safety, loyalty, and playfulness; traits that signal long-term partnership value rather than short-term status flexing. He chooses commitment over novelty, keeps his friendships intact, and treats people with kindness and respect. This quietly signals integrity and reliability. He represents secure masculinity without ego and brings the fun.

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