Men's Circle: Breath, Presence & Connection
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Men's Circle: Breath, Presence & Connection
An open space for men to come together, connect, and simply be. Whether you're moving through a challenge, seeking deeper connection, or wanting space to reflect, you are welcomed here.
Through breathwork, honest conversation, and shared presence, we create a space where men can show up authentically and be heard without judgment. There is no pressure to speak or be anything other than yourself. This circle is built on respect, trust, and genuine connection, offering a chance to slow down, listen, and remember that you don't have to do life alone.
Structure of the Circle:
Gathering in a Circle: Participants sit in a circle to symbolize equality and unity.
Opening Breathwork: We begin with a guided breathwork practice to help everyone arrive, settle into the space, and connect with themselves and the group.
Talking Object: A sharing stick or object is placed in the center. Only the person holding the object may speak, ensuring uninterrupted sharing.
Open Sharing: Anyone may choose to share while holding the object. Sharing is optional, and passing is always respected.
Active Listening: While one person shares, others listen attentively without speaking, interrupting, or offering advice. The focus is on witnessing and being present.
No Judgments or Advice: Participants refrain from judging or offering unsolicited advice, creating a safe space for authentic expression.
Closing: The circle may conclude with a group reflection, a moment of gratitude, or a simple acknowledgment of the shared experience.
Circle Agreements
Supportive Environment: We are here to uplift and support one another, fostering trust and brotherhood.
Focus on the Present: Share what's alive for you now, focusing on your emotions and experiences to deepen emotional awareness.
Use "I" Statements: Speak from your personal perspective using "I" statements to promote authenticity and responsibility. Avoid generalizations like "we" or "us."
No Judgment or fixing: Refrain from judging others sharing or offering unsolicited advice, ensuring a safe and non-critical space.
Confidentiality: What is shared in the circle stays in the circle. You may discuss your own experience outside the group but keep others' details private.
Optional Plant-Based Dinner
After the circle, stay for a wholesome plant-based dinner and dessert ($20). Sharing a meal is a simple way to extend the sense of community and connection. This gathering is offered on a non-profit basis.
Meet Andre and Sri Jiva, your hosts
Andre has been immersed in men’s work since the age of 13, when he first experienced a rite of passage in Golden Bay. That formative experience sparked a lifelong connection to circle work, which he later deepened by returning as a mentor. Over the years, Andre has come to value the power of sitting in a circle, of men coming together in honesty, vulnerability, and presence to witness and support one another. A multi-instrumental musician, poet, and pranayama (breathwork) facilitator, Andre also brings his passion for ecstatic dance, philosophy, and authentic connection into his offerings. He is deeply inspired by the question of what it means to be human, how we can more fully experience our aliveness, our depth, and reconnecting with the beauty of life together.
Since childhood, Sri Jiva has been fascinated by meaning, purpose, and authentic life fulfilment. This, among other things, led him to join a monastery at the age of 19. After years of monastic training, he chose to marry and pursue a career. He felt called to use his monastic experience to help others understand themselves, and to find wisdom, meaning, and purpose in their own lives. Inspired by this calling, he went to university to study counselling. Now, Sri Jiva and his wife live near Wellington, where he works with a small team of counsellors, supporting clients individually and in groups.
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Booking for Thursday is recommended!
For more details and to book please go here--
https://www.bhaktilounge.org.nz/event-booking/ ...............................................................................................
Make Thursdays your night to connect and take a break from your week. Events range from creative workshops, wellness courses to entertaining experiences. All within a down-to-earth and welcoming space. Each event wraps up with a plant-based dinner and dessert.
...............................................................................................
Bhakti Lounge
1/175 Vivian Street
Wellington
bhaktilounge.org.nz
An open space for men to come together, connect, and simply be. Whether you're moving through a challenge, seeking deeper connection, or wanting space to reflect, you are welcomed here.
Through breathwork, honest conversation, and shared presence, we create a space where men can show up authentically and be heard without judgment. There is no pressure to speak or be anything other than yourself. This circle is built on respect, trust, and genuine connection, offering a chance to slow down, listen, and remember that you don't have to do life alone.
Structure of the Circle:
Gathering in a Circle: Participants sit in a circle to symbolize equality and unity.
Opening Breathwork: We begin with a guided breathwork practice to help everyone arrive, settle into the space, and connect with themselves and the group.
Talking Object: A sharing stick or object is placed in the center. Only the person holding the object may speak, ensuring uninterrupted sharing.
Open Sharing: Anyone may choose to share while holding the object. Sharing is optional, and passing is always respected.
Active Listening: While one person shares, others listen attentively without speaking, interrupting, or offering advice. The focus is on witnessing and being present.
No Judgments or Advice: Participants refrain from judging or offering unsolicited advice, creating a safe space for authentic expression.
Closing: The circle may conclude with a group reflection, a moment of gratitude, or a simple acknowledgment of the shared experience.
Circle Agreements
Supportive Environment: We are here to uplift and support one another, fostering trust and brotherhood.
Focus on the Present: Share what's alive for you now, focusing on your emotions and experiences to deepen emotional awareness.
Use "I" Statements: Speak from your personal perspective using "I" statements to promote authenticity and responsibility. Avoid generalizations like "we" or "us."
No Judgment or fixing: Refrain from judging others sharing or offering unsolicited advice, ensuring a safe and non-critical space.
Confidentiality: What is shared in the circle stays in the circle. You may discuss your own experience outside the group but keep others' details private.
Optional Plant-Based Dinner
After the circle, stay for a wholesome plant-based dinner and dessert ($20). Sharing a meal is a simple way to extend the sense of community and connection. This gathering is offered on a non-profit basis.
Meet Andre and Sri Jiva, your hosts
Andre has been immersed in men’s work since the age of 13, when he first experienced a rite of passage in Golden Bay. That formative experience sparked a lifelong connection to circle work, which he later deepened by returning as a mentor. Over the years, Andre has come to value the power of sitting in a circle, of men coming together in honesty, vulnerability, and presence to witness and support one another. A multi-instrumental musician, poet, and pranayama (breathwork) facilitator, Andre also brings his passion for ecstatic dance, philosophy, and authentic connection into his offerings. He is deeply inspired by the question of what it means to be human, how we can more fully experience our aliveness, our depth, and reconnecting with the beauty of life together.
Since childhood, Sri Jiva has been fascinated by meaning, purpose, and authentic life fulfilment. This, among other things, led him to join a monastery at the age of 19. After years of monastic training, he chose to marry and pursue a career. He felt called to use his monastic experience to help others understand themselves, and to find wisdom, meaning, and purpose in their own lives. Inspired by this calling, he went to university to study counselling. Now, Sri Jiva and his wife live near Wellington, where he works with a small team of counsellors, supporting clients individually and in groups.
................................................................................................
Booking for Thursday is recommended!
For more details and to book please go here--
https://www.bhaktilounge.org.nz/event-booking/ ...............................................................................................
Make Thursdays your night to connect and take a break from your week. Events range from creative workshops, wellness courses to entertaining experiences. All within a down-to-earth and welcoming space. Each event wraps up with a plant-based dinner and dessert.
...............................................................................................
Bhakti Lounge
1/175 Vivian Street
Wellington
bhaktilounge.org.nz
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