Good at "Bad": Playing with Brats & Friction

Schedule

Wed Feb 04 2026 at 07:30 pm to 11:45 pm

UTC-05:00

Location

Near Union Square, Address in email confirmation additional info section | New York, NY

Don’t fear the brat—friction & power struggle can be the secret ingredient for creating thrilling, juicy scenes.
About this Event

This class is for the brats - and those who love them. Here, resistance isn’t a problem to solve, but the spark that brings your scenes to life. In this dynamic workshop, we’ll explore how friction fuels excitement, why playful challenges are the lifeblood of thrilling k!nk, and how true power lies in harnessing desire and directing attention. In the end, it's not about who gets their way but the chaos that is unleashed along the way! Together, we’ll practice reading reactions, negotiating bratty pl@y, and transforming every “punch in the face - freeze” moment into a graceful dance, deeper connection, and fun. Get ready to dive into the dance of resistance, getting unstuck during power struggles, and discover how joyful clashes can lead to the most memorable, satisfying scenes.


💡 What We’ll Explore:

🌀 The Dance of Resistance: Explore how resistance can elevate tension, fueling powerful scenes full of energy and excitement.

⚔️ Power Struggles: Learn to embrace clashes as opportunities, moving energy instead of fighting against it, and finding the fun in the struggle.

🎭 Taming the Brat: Handle button-pushers with skill, turning bratful defiance into a dynamic, connected experience of mutual energetic satisfaction.

💬 Negotiating Bratty Scenes: Ensure alignment by setting clear expectations, so both parties feel fulfilled and surprises don’t derail the fun.

🔄 Getting Unstuck: Master strategies to break through stalemates and reignite the flow of power when things feel stuck.




We are having a 2-part evening of indulgence and learning. Come for the workshop and stay for the Jam to practice what you learned and meet other like-minded folks!



Workshop Format
  1. Feel Free to Take Notes! If it helps you learn, we encourage you to bring a notepad to jot notes and reflections
  2. Interactions: The Workshop may include personal reflections, interactive demonstrations, and practical exercises. This may include solo/partner/group activities. Participate and opt-in to the extent of your comfort - you can also just sit back at any time and observe others!
  3. Come Alone or With Someone! Come solo or bring a partner, a friend, a group of coworkers, your frenemies, or your entire polycule! During the exercises, you'll have the opportunity to interact with other students & switch partners, which allows for practicing with familiar partners and new acquaintances. We do not pair people up and encourage guests to make friends and engage to their level of comfort. Couples can stay paired the whole time or choose to practice with others.
  4. Dress Code: Feel free to dress however you want, whether vanilla or ready to practice. There is a place to change outfits.
  5. Who Can Come: This workshop is open to all gender identifications, orientations, lifestyles, singles and couples. All experience levels welcome. 18+



Jam After the Workshop:

A Jam session is a practice-based gathering where we focus on applying what you learned in the workshop or know within the context of the curriculum. The Jam is tailored to the interests of the students and may involve live demonstration scenes, guided practice time, and other applications of class material. Opt to engage to your comfort level or simply observe and learn. This is not a hookup-style event and the focus is on practice (Non Sex-Based).





Please Acknowledge:
It should go without saying, but we are going to spell it out clearly nonetheless: k¡nk and intimacy activities are inherently risky. Safety requires practice and cannot be guaranteed. By attending, you agree to participate at your own risk, conduct your own risk management, and agree to hold the event facilitators and facility harmless for any type of physical or emotional harm that may occur.


Event Details:

  1. Doors Open: 7:30 PM (doors close at 7:40 PM)
  2. After Hours 9:45/10pm start
  3. Event Ends: 11:45 PM
  4. Location: Provided in your confirmation email (details in confirmation email additional info, check spam/promo folder)
  5. Accessibility: Walk-up venue



Questions or concerns?

📧 Email: [email protected]

🌐 Website: PagansParadise.com

📸 IG: @pagansparadise | @the.sirenatrix



Pricing:

Workshop or Jam ONLY: Early Bird $30, Classic $40

Workshop and Jam: Early $55, Classic $75

Note: Jam Only tickets are only available for those who are already familiar with the curriculum AND have attended a Pagans Paradise event before. If you purchase a Jam Only Ticket and do not qualify, you may be turned away at the door.



LATE ENTRY & REFUNDS

To protect the space and ensure a seamless experience for all, doors will close promptly. Late arrivals may not be admitted, and refunds will not be available. Refund requests must be made up to seven days prior to the event.

Where is it happening?

Near Union Square, Address in email confirmation additional info section, union square, New York, United States
Tickets

USD 33.85 to USD 81.88

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