Dating Is DEAD: Why NYC's Most Successful Women (Like You) Are Still Single

From a dating coach and matchmaker featured in New York Magazine.

The more successful you become, the harder dating gets. You already know this. What you don't know is exactly why — and what to do about it.

You dread opening your DMs. Blind dates feel like a second job interview. You've taken more breaks from dating than you can count. And you're starting to wonder if love is just not in the cards for you.

Here's the truth: there are more than 30 reasons why dating is so hard in New York for a woman like you. Most workshops only cover 3 factors (time, dating apps, and standards); this is the only workshop covering them all.

Dating Is DEAD is a 5-hour live masterclass and workshop for successful single women in NYC who are done being razor-sharp in every area of their lives except their love life. No recycled advice. A full reset — built specifically for modern, high-achieving NYC women who want an equal, emotionally intelligent, values-matched partner.

This is an investment in a strategic approach to your love life, designed to equip you with actionable insights and a supportive community.

WHAT YOU'LL WALK AWAY WITH

✔ Knowledge of the 30 + reasons why successful women have it the hardest dating in New York—and what you can do about them.

✔ Clarity on the patterns keeping you stuck — people-pleasing, over-functioning, tolerating misaligned values, and more — and a real plan to break them

✔ A values-aligned partner profile built around your ambitions and your vision for your life, not a generic checklist

✔ A practical dating strategy you can implement immediately, designed for feminist women who refuse to compromise on what matters

✔ Real connection with a community of like-minded single women in New York who are also done shrinking — and done doing this alone

THIS IS FOR YOU IF:

→ You're a successful, independent woman who wants a real relationship on your terms

→ You're exhausted by dating apps, situationships, and emotionally unavailable men

→ Your values aren't a talking point — they show up in how you live and who you are — and you want a partner who can say the same

→ You want to date intentionally, attract an equal, and stop feeling behind in your love life

YOUR GUIDE

Expert guidance from Sophie Kaemmerle, a dating coach and professional matchmaker who specializes in modern, high-achieving women and has worked with executives, doctors, founders, and other successful women. With Sophie's expertise, clients don't just leave with better dates — they leave with a clearer understanding of themselves, what they actually need, and the confidence to recognize it when it's in front of them.

TESTIMONIALS

"Sophie is a keen listener, highly observant, and incredibly empathetic. She takes the time to intentionally guide you through your core dating philosophies, and has helped me uncover things I had no idea existed in my own perspective."

"Sophie is an exceptional NYC matchmaking coach! Through her professionalism, attentive listening, and wise advice, I moved forward confidently in a relationship, overcoming doubts and laying a solid foundation. Her approach is both human and effective, blending empathy with practical tools. Highly recommend for tailored advice and support."

PITCH-A-FRIEND

Your Next Connection Awaits! At the end of the masterclass, we do something no other dating event does. You'll have the opportunity to champion a high-value single male friend to the group — vouched for, vetted, and introduced by a woman who knows him well. Real connections. No apps. No swiping. Please see the agenda for details about this segment of the Masterclass.

THE DETAILS

📍 Luminary, 1204 Broadway, 4th floor. Please note that the venue is subject to change.

📅 Saturday June 13, 2026 | 11am - 4pm

🎟 Limited to 20 people — this is intentionally intimate

☕️ Refreshments and lunch provided

💸 $190 | Prices go up to $280 May 15

Can't make this masterclass?

This is for the woman who's ready to stop putting her love life last.

Info: Throughout this engaging workshop, we will:
* We'll go through all 30+ reasons successful women struggle in NYC dating — and what to actually do about each one.
* Move beyond superficial preferences to articulate a clear and compelling profile of your ideal partner, aligning with your values and long-term goals.
* Develop a profound sense of clarity about your own desires, boundaries, and what you truly seek in a relationship.
* Learn actionable strategies to approach dating intentionally, from optimizing your online presence to navigating first dates and building meaningful connections.
This interactive session will feature short, impactful exercises designed to help you apply these concepts immediately. While participation is highly encouraged to maximize your learning and personal growth, it is never required. Feel free to engage at your comfort level, knowing you'll still gain immense value from the insights shared.

Info: You're welcome to use the restroom, refresh on snacks and drinks, and take a break anytime during the 5-hour event; however, we've built in a dedicated 15-minute window for this purpose.

Info: Attendees will have the chance to give a brief, positive presentation about a single male friend they believe is a great catch. Following the pitches, interested women can connect directly with the pitchers to learn more and potentially arrange an introduction.
Ground Rules for a Positive Experience: To ensure a respectful and enjoyable atmosphere for everyone, we kindly ask all participants to adhere to the following:
* Pitches should highlight the best qualities of your friend in a fun and uplifting manner. This is about celebrating connections, not roasting!.
* Ensure your male friend is fully aware, consents to being pitched, and is open to meeting new people.
* All interactions should be respectful. If someone declines an interaction or expresses disinterest, please accept their decision gracefully and without pressure. Respect the privacy of all attendees and pitched friends. Do not share personal information or conversations outside of the event without explicit consent.

Know what’s Happening Next — before everyone else does.

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