2026 FindSelf Retreat for Adult Adoptees

Hosted by FindSelf Counseling, and Kathryn Perkins (Katy Perkins Coveney), LCSW-S

The experience of being separated from original family is an isolating one. Left alone with thoughts unexpressed, it's hard to 'be ourselves' if we're not sure who that is, and limits our ability to freely explore our feelings in relative safety*.

This retreat is meant to be an opportunity for people who have experienced family separation trauma to reflect, heal, and participate in deliberate community with others who share a core experience. Adults who were adopted as children and/or who experienced foster care are welcome. Connect with other like minded folks, deepen your self care skills, learn new ways to express yourself, and have fun. You're also welcome to just not think about it for a bit!

*A note: While no one can guarantee that any particular space is universally "safe" for all, we can ensure that staff/volunteers will be present to provide: an attitude of openness, vulnerability, and advocacy if necessary; options and outlets for people who might not feel safe/welcomed in the moment.

We are thrilled to be providing this retreat for the 3rd year! Participants are welcome to stay in the area and connect with other attendees to make a weekend of it.

Registration includes lunch on Friday and Saturday, and coffee, snacks, and beverages daily. Activities generally include movement, reflection, conversation, and creativity, and a schedule will be shared with registrants in advance.

• To allow for meaningful connection and a sustainable experience, the retreat requires a minimum of 5 participants to move forward. Registration will be capped at 15 attendees to help maintain an intimate, supportive environment.
• We recommend staying at the event hotel, which provides free daily breakfast, all day coffee, and easy access to the Addison area (loads of restaurants!).
• Since we meet towards the end of October, we usually have an offrenda to honor our loved ones who have departed. Feel free to bring pictures, mementos, etc to add for your own loved ones.