Unlikely Collaborators Spark Salon with Sonja Lyubomirsky, PhD

Schedule

Thu May 14 2026 at 06:00 pm to 09:00 pm

UTC-07:00

Location

1520 2nd St | Santa Monica, CA

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How to Feel Loved
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How to Feel Loved
Sonja Lyubomirsky, PhD

What do you do when you don’t feel loved?

In a world where we are more connected than ever, many people still feel unseen, misunderstood, or alone. The issue is not always about how much love we have in our lives, but how we experience it.

In this Spark Salon, renowned psychologist and best-selling author Sonja Lyubomirsky explores how our internal lens shapes the way we give, receive, and interpret love. Drawing from her book How to Feel Loved, she challenges the instinct to earn love by presenting our best selves, and instead points to the power of authenticity, including our imperfections and vulnerabilities.

This session explores how the way we show up in our relationships, what we express, what we hold back, and how we respond to others shapes whether love is actually felt on both sides. How do small shifts in how we communicate and engage change whether someone feels seen, valued, and understood? And how, in turn, does that transform our own experience of being loved?

Blending research from well-being and relationship science, Lyubomirsky introduces a set of core relational mindsets that can shift how we experience connection in everyday life, helping close the gap between being loved and actually feeling it.

6:00 p.m.: Doors open, reception
7:00 p.m.: Program begins promptly, doors close no late admittance
8:00 p.m.: Book signing and reception

Prior to the event you will receive an email from Unlikely Collaborators’ building registration system (coming from: [email protected]) to confirm your attendance and to offer pre-check in for the event. During the in-person check in process each attendee will be required to:

  • Present a government-issued ID
  • Take a photo for the building registration system
  • Review and sign a general liability waiver and a house rules agreement (can be completed during pre-check in)
  • Wear an event badge that displays your first name

No exceptions.

Attendance is complimentary, full and completed registration is required. Admission is granted on a first come, first served basis until capacity is reached. Doors open at 6:00pm and close promptly at 7:00pm. Late entry is not permitted as the event is being filmed and livestreamed.

No pets allowed (except for service animals), no outside food or beverages allowed.

Lyubomirsky is the author of How to Feel Loved: The Five Mindsets That Get You More of What Matters Most.


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1520 2nd St, 1520 2nd Street, Santa Monica, United States

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