The Quiet Luxury Exchange: Slow Speed Dating for the Opulent 25+

Dress to impress rooftop dinner & matchmaking for Tulsa's most discerning singles. 20 guests. 3 curated dates. One unforgettable night.
About this Event

An evening designed for those who don't settle.

Beyond The Sparks & JNAR present
The Grand Rotation — a slow, intentional matchmaking experience for Tulsa's most accomplished singles. This is not speed dating as you know it. This is a curated exclusive, dress to impress penthouse, roof top experience, and three pre-matched conversations with people specifically chosen for you.

Twenty guests. Ten women. Ten men. One rooftop above the city.

Beyondthesparks.com

Age 25 - 38

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Examples on How to Dress
- https://docs.google.com/document/d/1q2qFOuSzSnmYxG6vxfbos580sEutdWowuvf1__dem6A/edit?usp=sharing

THE EXPERIENCE

6:30 PM — Champagne Arrival

Step into the birdbox which is a glass room that gets you panoramic views of the river and landscape of downtown Tulsa for a tuxedoed cocktail hour. and get welcomed with a glass of champagne. A live jazz ambiance trio sets the tone. Signature cocktails/mocktails are served. Five Course Tapas coming to each table as you are being greeted.
Your custom letterpress nameplate reveals your SPARK Profile — a glimpse of who you are before a word is spoken.

7:00 PM — ICE BREAKERS

As the tapas start flowing, your host kicks things off with a few quick icebreakers to get the room warmed up and comfortable with each other. Think low-stakes, high-energy — the kind of thing that gets people laughing before the real conversations begin.
7:30 PM — THE MINGLE ROTATIONS
Four more tapas courses will be served throughout the night. Each participant gets three dates, and your host introduces each guest with a compatibility statement — from there, it's on you to carry the conversation with wit, charm, and presence. This is where the compatibility already determined by your SPARK Profile becomes chemistry. The kind of engaging, unscripted exchange you can't get at a bar.

8:15 PM — The AFTERMATCH

After Three private outdoor tables. Three pre-matched conversations. Ten minutes each. Classical music. After-dinner drinks delivered tableside. This is where compatibility — already determined by your SPARK Profile — becomes chemistry. EACH Guest gets to write down two pieces of feedback for their person they believe is their best match. ANONYMOUSLY
Imagine getting feedback on how great your presence was in the room!

That's why we show up as our best Always.

8:45 PM — Final Course & Raffle Closing Toast

Return to the main room for dessert and a curated raffle and toasts for the rest of the night. Win a raffle that is worth over $1,000 in value. A final glass raised to the evening. Each guest departs with a sealed envelope — your match results, delivered to your inbox the following morning, along with the anonymous compliments your matches left for you.
9:00 PM — V.I.P GETAWAY
If You are V.I.P Check your tickets for how we are spending the next part of the night.

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WHAT'S INCLUDED

- Five-course bistro meal including
decadent tapas delicacies, signature Cocktails/ Mocktails.

- Signature cocktails and curated wine pairings
- Access to the rooftop which has glass walls so you get views of the river over a sunset all evening
- A photographer capturing you at any moment you desire

- Custom letterpress nameplate

- Three pre-matched private dates

- Anonymous compatibility feedback

- Take-home departure gift

- Match results delivered at the event
- A bartender on service

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WHO THIS IS FOR

This event is for singles who are serious about meeting someone of substance. Our guest list is curated using the SPARK Profile compatibility system — meaning every person in the room has been vetted for genuine compatibility with at least one other guest.

We are selective. Please complete your SPARK Profile at beyondthesparks.com before purchasing your ticket.

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9:30 V.I.P After Party
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THE DETAILS

Date: Saturday, August 1, 2026

Time: 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM

Location: Mansion House Rooftop, Tulsa, OK
11th Floor to the top right

Attire: Dress to impress

Capacity: 20 guests (10 women, 10 men)

Ticket: $200

Ages: 25 and up

41 Max

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Next 5 $200
Last 10 $Price goes up

Tickets are limited and the first 10 are special invite and pre-sold.
So this might be taken down 2 weeks before the event.
Once the guest list is filled that's it.

For questions, contact us at [email protected]

Beyond The Sparks

beyondthesparks.com