The Pressure Cooker Series for Singles

A 2-hour guided experience for Christian singles ages 25–41 who are done dating from fear, ego, and loneliness — and ready to honor God in how they love.

One afternoon. One raw, unfiltered conversation. You will leave different.

"I keep attracting the same kind of person."

"I know something is off but I ignore it anyway."

"I don't know what I actually want — I just don't want to be alone."

"Dating feels exhausting and I'm not sure it can even work."

"I've been ghosted, lied to, or overlooked — and I'm starting to wonder if something is wrong with me."

You are not broken. You are shaped by a hard culture — and you are in the right place.

Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life.

— Proverbs 4:23

Guarding your heart starts with knowing your heart. Most of us have never been given a real space to do that — especially around dating. This event is that space.

This is not a mixer. It is not a panel. It is not a sermon. It is a faith-centered formation experience part TED talk, part live conversation where we get honest about the patterns, fears, and cultural noise shaping the way we date.

No breakout rooms. No small talk. Just one room, one conversation, and the kind of honesty most people spend years avoiding.

Here are the things people think before they register — and what we want you to know.

You can. But you haven't. There is something that happens when you hear someone else in the room name exactly what you have been feeling privately — something shifts that a journal page cannot produce. You will hear yourself differently when the truth is spoken out loud.

You do not have to share anything you are not ready to share. You do not have to speak to be moved. Showing up is enough to start.

We take that seriously. This is a facilitated, intentional space — not an open mic. The conversation is guided with care. You are safe to be honest here.

We understand. This event is priced to be accessible on purpose. What we ask is that you weigh what another year of the same patterns costs you — emotionally, spiritually, relationally. Two hours and one decision could change the trajectory of how you love.

The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control.

— Galatians 5:22

That fruit shows up in relationships. This event helps you grow it in yourself — and recognize it in others.

Info: This is the heart of the event. Men and women in one room, having the conversation most people only have in their heads. Real questions. Real answers. Men hear women. Women hear men. No scripts, no debate — just truth.

Info: We start grounded. Two songs, a prayer, and a clear-eyed look at why we are all in the room.

Info: We name the three root causes of desperation-based dating — fear, ego, and loneliness. You reflect privately on which ones have been running the show in your life.

Info: This is the heart of the event. Men and women in one room, having the conversation most people only have in their heads. Real questions. Real answers. Men hear women. Women hear men. No scripts, no debate — just truth.

Info: You leave the conversation and build something concrete — a personal framework of what you require, what to watch for, and what disqualifies.

Info: You leave with one specific action step and a written commitment to yourself — not a feeling, an action.

Info: Light refreshments and wine. Open space. The conversations that started inside tend to continue out here.

Know what’s Happening Next — before everyone else does.

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