The Men's Circle: Life After Separation & Divorce
About this Event
Divorce is one of the hardest things a man will ever go through and most men go through it completely alone.
The Men's Circle: Life After Divorce & Separation is a gathering for men who are done carrying it alone. Whether your divorce was last month or five years ago, whether you left or were left, whether you're in the legal thick of it or just sensing the end coming, there's a seat here for you.
What this is
A circle, not a class. We sit together, and men speak, honestly, in turn, without being interrupted, judged, or "fixed." You'll be amazed what it does to say the true thing out loud in a room of men who get it.
A place for everything you're carrying. The grief and the relief. The anger and the guilt. Co-parenting and the empty weekends. Money, identity, loneliness, and the strange new question of what you actually want from the rest of your life.
Brotherhood, not advice. No one here will tell you what you should have done. We listen, we witness, we share what's worked for us, and we let each man find his own way through, supported instead of alone.
A starting point, not a pit stop. Divorce ends a marriage. It doesn't have to end you. Many men later describe this season as the beginning of the most honest chapter of their lives. This circle is where that chapter can start.
How it works
We open with a simple check-in, set clear agreements (confidentiality, no interrupting, no fixing, pass whenever you want), and then the circle belongs to you. Speak as much or as little as you choose, there is zero pressure to share. Some men talk for ten minutes their first night; some just listen. Both are welcome.
Who this is for
- You are divorced, separated, or in the middle of it
- You sense their marriage is ending and don't know who to talk to
- You never really processed it
- And to be clear: you do not have to be a man to attend. This circle is centered on men's experience of divorce and separation, but everyone is welcome, any gender, any background. If this topic speaks to you, or you love a man going through it and want to understand, there's a seat for you too.
- 18+. All genders welcome. Come as you are.
About Your Host - Kai
In 2025, I separated from my wife.
I won't dress that up. It cracked my life open, the home, the future I'd planned, the person I thought I was. And what I discovered in the middle of it was something I never expected, how to deal with it..
So I handled it the only way I knew how...by doing something and not just sit there. It was being with men who understood, saying the true thing out loud, and being met with respect instead of pity. I signed up for workshops, classes and men's groups.
I created this circle because every man going through separation or divorce deserves that room, and almost none of us have it.
I've started Kismet Infinity, a community made for connection, friendship, dating, sex, relationships, kink and spirituality, built on the belief that the full human experience, including its hardest chapters, is something we're meant to navigate together, not alone.
Where is it happening?
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