The Embers Series | Adult Friendships: How to make one, how to be one?

When we were kids, friendships were as easy as being in the same class. But once we're older, making friends and maintaining friendships becomes more complicated. What makes a good friendship? What makes a good friend? Are adult friendships more complicated than romantic relationships? How do we know when to let someone go? We'll discuss all this and more!

We live in a time when so many of us feel divided, rushed, or isolated. Yet beneath it all, we long for connection — to be heard, to hear others, and to feel that we belong.

The Embers Series is a set of guided, themed conversations designed to bring people together in an atmosphere of warmth, safety, and curiosity. Like gathering around a fire, these evenings invite us to slow down, listen deeply, and share what matters most.

Each event has a unique theme — from loneliness and belonging, to what kind of world we want to live in, to the secret life of secrets, to the art of curiosity, to how to have better conversations, and beyond. You don’t need to prepare anything or “have the right answers.” You just need to bring yourself.

• A welcoming, guided format (you won’t be put on the spot or left adrift)
• Thoughtful prompts that invite reflection and real conversation
• A supportive, respectful space for sharing and listening

No experience required. Just come as you are.

• Many gatherings leave you wondering how to open up or where to start. Around the Fire Conversations provide gentle facilitation to keep conversations safe and open, while still inviting thoughtful exploration of challenging or even controversial topics—a rare experience in today’s world.
• Instead of hoping for connection, it’s built in. You’ll leave having shared stories, reflected with others, and felt the quiet power of being heard.
• These aren’t small-talk conversations. These conversations are designed to spark curiosity, insight, laughter, and the kind of understanding that lingers—the kind of connection that, we hope, could spark real connection and even real change in the world.

• A thoughtfully guided experience designed to help you engage fully and feel comfortable sharing.
• A welcoming space curated by a facilitator who ensures everyone feels seen and included.
• A circle of participants who, like you, are drawn by curiosity, reflection, and the desire for authentic connection.

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