Speed Dating for Lesbian Singles | Long Beach (Ages 30-45)

Dating in your 30s (and beyond) can feel… exhausting. Apps are hit or miss, DMs go nowhere, and finding someone who’s genuinely intentional can feel rare ...especially when you’re craving something real.

This June, we’re doing things differently.

This speed dating experience is designed for lesbian / WLW singles ages 30 to 45 who are open to meaningful connection and ready to meet people in real life. Hosted at Steady Brewery in Long Beach, this thoughtfully curated evening blends great conversation, relaxed vibes, and just enough structure to make connecting feel easy and not awkward.

Think less pressure, more presence. Less swiping, more chemistry.

• Structured speed dating rounds with guided timing
• Intentional conversation prompts (no “so what do you do?” panic)
• A relaxed brewery atmosphere (drinking optional)
• Time before and after to mingle organically
• A respectful, welcoming, and grown crowd

• Lesbian / WLW singles ages 30 to 45
• Women dating with intention (not boredom)
• Women open to real conversation, curiosity, and chemistry
• Women who are ready to kick off their summer with a potential boo

• A chaotic mixer with no direction
• A loud bar scene
• A guarantee of “the one” (but definitely a chance at something meaningful)

Your ticket includes one drink (n/a options available) and light snacks to keep the energy flowing.

Spots are limited to ensure balanced rotations and a quality experience.
Advance ticket purchase is required.

Come as you are. Be open. Be kind.
You never know who you might meet.

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