Slow Dating by Slllo

Meet at least 3 compatible, intentional partners between ages 30-45 in one night, saving months on swipes.

This is NOT speed dating.

​This is an experience, made up of three mini-dates with three different people, and a matchmaking component when you stay engaged in our Slllo community.

​It’s about getting honest with yourself, first.

Then connecting with others who are ready to do the same.

What you'll leave with.

​To create a safe space for everyone to show up as their most authentic selves, it’s important that our intentions align.

​👉🏻 Please apply below so we can verify your identity and curate an intentional group of participants. Incomplete submissions will not be considered.

​You learn how to lead value-based conversations, then get paired with four different people for 1:1 deep talks as you build your bouquet. It’s fun and surprisingly therapeutic.

​ ​‍❤️‍ Gather and Reflect.

​If you approached each conversation with curiosity, you’ve probably had many AHA! moments, learning about your date, and most importantly, yourself.

​‍❤️‍ Dive into the Mixer.

​Did someone else get your attention? Or did you want to dive deeper with someone? This is your chance. No pressure, no awkwardness.

​​‍❤️‍ Say Goodbyes, and Share Your Desired Match.

​Now, ready to apply and try something new to kick off 2026 on a high note?​You share secretly who’d you like to have another date with after the event. If there’s none, that’s fine. You had a great time and will leave with plenty.

​Early Access $140 - Ends on March 23, 2026

What to expect.

​💝 A Potential Match | Our Slllo team will email matches and set up the first date!

​💝 A Quarterly Match-Making Circle | Invite to our quarterly Slow Dating Alumni Mixer at a alumni’s rate of $35, where new and old connections are made. If there are potential matches from different cohorts, you’ll receive a gentle nudge from our Slllo team.

​💝 A Beautiful Bouquet You Create & Take | Also a skill you’ll carry with you long after the experience. Self-made bouquets represent three love languages: time, service, and gift.

​💝 Self Awareness is Sexy | 96% of past participants reported greater clarity around their values, patterns, and what they truly seek in a partnership.

​General Access $155​💝 Early Access to Slllo Experiences | Early access to Slllo experiences and retreats enjoyed with a community of thoughtful, self-aware individuals who are intentional about leading wellness first lives.

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