SAPPHIC SPEED DATING

Schedule

Sun Oct 25 2026 at 04:00 pm to 06:00 pm

UTC-07:00
Location

The Wicked Wolf Cocktail Bar + Tea Lounge & Café | Long Beach, CA

A Speed Dating Event for Women Who Love Women
About this Event

💜 SAPPHIC SPEED DATING 💜


A Speed Dating Event for Women Who Love Women


She’s gorgeous.

She’s smiling at you.

She complimented your earrings.

She’s definitely flirting with you...

Right?

Or she’s straight.

Or she’s partnered.

Or she’s just really friendly.

Or this is simply what happens every time two women try to figure out if another woman is interested. 😂

Let’s make this easier.

No swiping.

No endless messaging.

No wondering if she likes women.

No spending three weeks chatting only to discover neither of you is ever going to suggest meeting in person.

Just 20 women, a drink in your hand, a bunch of mini dates and the possibility that someone across the table makes you blush. 😏



💜 HOW IT WORKS

We'll have only 20 spots available for an intimate afternoon of sapphic speed dating at The Wicked Wolf.

You'll rotate through a series of short dates and get a chance to actually TALK to the women in the room.

Not interview them.

Not decide whether they're your future wife in six minutes. 😂

Just notice...

Does conversation flow?

Does she make you laugh?

Are you curious about her?

Is there a little spark?

Would I like another 10 minutes with this woman?

At the end, you'll privately let us know who you'd like to connect with again.

If you both say YES, it's a match. 💜

We'll share your contact information with each other after the event.

No awkward rejection.

No wondering whether you should ask for her number.

If you both want to connect, we'll connect you.

What happens after that is entirely up to you. 😏



🍹 YOUR TICKET INCLUDES

Tickets are $35 and include:

💜 Admission to Sapphic Speed Dating

🍸 $10 off your Wicked Wolf tab

💕 A room full of women who actually came there to meet women

✨ All the awkward, adorable, flirty possibilities that come with that

And we're keeping this one intentionally small.


ONLY 20 TICKETS ARE AVAILABLE.

Once they're gone, they're gone.



🌈 WHO IS THIS FOR?

This particular event is intentionally a women dating women space.

Lesbian? Come.

Bisexual? Come.

Pansexual? Come.

Queer? Come.

Questioning or exploring your attraction to women? Come.

Never dated a woman before?

You can come too.

You do not need to be exclusively attracted to women.

You simply need to identify as a woman and be genuinely interested in dating women.

Trans women are women and are absolutely welcome. 💜

If you identify as nonbinary rather than as a woman, this particular dating event isn't your container, but we'd genuinely love to have you at one of our other The Namaste Nest events.

This isn't an all-genders LGBTQ+ speed dating event.

It's women meeting women.



WAIT... IS THIS JUST FOR SINGLE/MONOGAMOUS WOMEN?

NOPE.

We are an ENM-friendly community. 💜

Single? Come.

Polyamorous? Come.

Open relationship? Come.

Solo poly? Come.

Partnered and independently dating? Come.

Monogamous and looking for your person? Come.

The important thing is that you're genuinely available to date and honest about what you're available for.

Maybe you're looking for your future wife.

Maybe you'd love a girlfriend.

Maybe you're partnered and looking for another meaningful relationship.

Maybe you're dating slowly and seeing what develops.

Ask questions. Be honest. Find your people.



😬 BUT I'M NERVOUS...

GOOD.

Okay, maybe not good good. 😂

But you're probably not going to be the only one.

And here's the beautiful thing:

Everyone in that room came for the same reason.

You don't have to figure out whether she's queer.

You don't have to figure out whether she's available.

You don't have to work up the courage to approach a gorgeous stranger across the bar.

We're literally going to put her across the table from you. 😂

Your only job is to show up, be yourself, talk to some women and notice:

Who do I want to know more about?



🕓 THE DETAILS

📅 Sunday, October 25

🕓 4:00 PM to 6:00 PM

📍 The Wicked Wolf

🎟️ $35 per person

🍹 $10 off your Wicked Wolf tab

👩 Women only

💕 Only 20 spots available

Plan to arrive a little early so you can check in, grab your drink and get settled. We'll begin speed dating promptly.



AND DON'T RUN AWAY AT 6:00! 😂

The structured speed dating ends at 6.

Your date doesn't have to.

Maybe someone you met deserves more than a few minutes.

Maybe you made a new friend.

Maybe you and that cute woman have been making eyes at each other all afternoon and one of you finally needs to do something about it. 😏

Stay.

Grab one of The Wicked Wolf's magical cocktails or mocktails.

Get some delicious BBQ from next door.

Sit down with the women you connected with and keep talking.

Speed dating gives you the introduction.

What happens next is yours. 💜



A FEW HOUSE RULES

Come with curiosity.

Be kind.

Be honest about your relationship status and what you're looking for.

Respect a no.

Respect a maybe.

Remember that attraction is never owed.

No photographing or recording other attendees without their consent.

And remember:

A match means "I'd like to talk to you again."

It isn't consent for anything beyond that.

Mostly?

Don't be an asshole. 😂

We're all here trying to connect.

Let's make it a lovely room to do that in.



💜 MORE OF THE COMMUNITY

Sapphic Speed Dating is hosted by The Namaste Nest, a growing ENM, kink, tantra and sex-positive community creating opportunities for real connection in the South Bay/Long Beach area.

Check out TheNamasteNest.com for more events and information on the community being built.

Worst case?

You have a delicious drink, meet a bunch of interesting women and have a story to tell your friends.

Best case?

Well...

Maybe you delete a dating app. 😏

Come meet women in real life. 💜

Where is it happening?

The Wicked Wolf Cocktail Bar + Tea Lounge & Café, 2332 Pacific Avenue, Long Beach, United States
Tickets

USD 39.19

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