Open Community Potluck at Brad's

To reserve your spot, an Eventbrite ticket is required.

to let other people know you're attending, to be able to participate in the event chat, and have opportunities to connect with other attendees you may meet at the event. Bloom RSVP does not reserve you a spot at the potluck.

Come gather and share stories and experiences of non-monogamy, relationships, and community; Whether you're simply curious, attending to support a friend/partner, or if you are actively practicing some form of non-monogamy. Experience with non monogamy is not required to attend.

We welcome all to attend, straight and LGBTQIA+

The organizer of this community values consent, honesty, authenticity, vulnerability, kindness, and accountability. Communication is a critical element of all connections, so we're here to practice connecting in our safer space we've cultivated. We hope that you feel welcome and at home here.

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Please read all of the community rules and safer space guidelines below before attending your first event.

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CAPACITY

This is a large event space, so we will have capacity for 30 people. Tickets required.

LOCATION
Venue address will be sent via email 24 hours and 2 hours before the event.

Street parking: Muwékma Park

https://maps.app.goo.gl/QthjsJptmGWbhTji6

Cross the street to arrive at Brad’s place

ACCESSIBILITY

Two story home. Two small steps to get inside. Main gathering space is on the 2nd floor. There is no elevator. 3rd floor rooms for small breakouts and additional bathroom in the hallway are optional.

PETS

There are no pets. Well behaved service animals are welcome.

WHEN ARE THINGS HAPPENING?

7:00pm - 8:00pm: Socializing and Potluck Food Time
8:00pm - 8:15pm: Doors close - Opening Circle - Rules, Topic
8:15pm - 9:15pm: Small group discussion time - Break into small groups to share thoughts on the topic or choose your own.
9:15pm - 9:30pm: Closing Circle - Share your thoughts and experiences with the larger group.
9:30pm - 10:00pm: Freestyle socializing

DISCUSSION TOPICS

TBA

Taking offerings and ideas from attendees

POTLUCK FOOD

This is a dinnertime potluck event, so bring food/drinks to share.

POTLUCK SIGN UP HERE

Your potluck contribution can be home cooked or take out. All options are much preferred to 5 different types of chips and dip, so please check the potluck sign up before grabbing your food. If you want a challenge, there are usually people attending who would appreciate some Gluten Free or Low Sugar foods. Wholesome filling foods are always great.

PARKING

Park across the street from Brad's home - Muwekma park has lots of parking. If parking lot is full check San Simeon St to San Rafael Street.

DRINKING/SMOKING

Alcohol is OK in moderation and BYOB. No Smoking.

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COMMUNITY GUIDELINES

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CONFIDENTIALITY

Everything shared in this group should be treated as confidential and private.

Do not share stories that are not yours and name other individuals without their permission.

Do not greet people outside of this group in a manner that would out them.

CONVERSATIONAL CONSENT

Be aware of your audience, which is a mix of vanilla and spicy community members. Sex, kink, or BDSM related content is not the focus of these events. Voyeuristic sharing of these categories may make others feel unwelcome in this space, and should be reserved for private spaces that have full consent of all people in the space.

CONSENT AND BOUNDARIES

You may see people hugging, kissing, and cuddling at this event. Don't assume what someone does with others is wanted with everyone. Always ask before entering someone's personal space.

No Hard cruising (Flirting with everyone of a certain type, asking for contact info or a date right away without mutual interest).

HOLDING SPACE FOR EACH OTHER
If you feel comfortable doing so, hold space for each other. Holding space means letting others share their truth, without assumptions, judgment, unwanted advice, or trying to fix things. Sometimes, this is the only pace for a person to just be, and to express what they are going through.

NOTAFLOF Ticket Policy

No one is turned away for lack of funds. If the cost of a ticket means you would choose not to attend, please get a ticket and write "Free" in the promo box - the total cost of the shiny golden ticket will be $0. No questions asked.

Host or Publisher Rose