Men's Circle: Real Conversations

In a world that demands men have it all figured out, this circle offers a safe space to be real, connect and share without judgment.
About this Event

Men’s Circle: Real Conversations

In a world where men are often expected to have everything figured out, this gathering offers a space to be genuine, not perfect.

The evening offers a supportive space for men to come together, connect, and share openly about life. This circle welcomes men from all walks of life, whether you’re going through change, wanting deeper connection, or simply looking for a space where you can just show up as you are.

The conversations are real, honest, and grounded in respect. There’s no pressure to speak or have anything figured out: listening is just as welcome. The circle is built on confidentiality, non-judgement, and creating a space where people can feel safe, seen, and genuine.

Structure of the Circle

• Gathering in a Circle: Participants sit in a circle to symbolize equality and unity.
• A short meditation or moment of silence may be included to help everyone arrive and connect.
• Talking Object: A sharing stick or object is placed in the center. Only the person holding the object may speak, ensuring uninterrupted sharing.
• Open Sharing: Anyone may choose to share while holding the object. Sharing is optional, and passing is always respected.
• Active Listening: While one person shares, others listen attentively without speaking, interrupting, or offering advice. The focus is on witnessing and being present.
• No Judgments or Advice: Participants refrain from judging or offering unsolicited advice, creating a safe space for authentic expression.
• Closing: The circle may conclude with a group reflection, a moment of gratitude, or a simple acknowledgment of the shared experience.

Circle Agreements

• Supportive Environment: We are here to uplift and support one another, fostering trust and brotherhood.
• Focus on the Present: Share what's alive for you now, focusing on your emotions and experiences to deepen emotional awareness.
• Use "I" Statements: Speak from your personal perspective using "I" statements to promote authenticity and responsibility. Avoid generalizations like "we" or "us."
• No Judgment or fixing: Refrain from judging others sharing or offering unsolicited advice, ensuring a safe and non-critical space.
• Confidentiality: What is shared in the circle stays in the circle. You may discuss your own experience outside the group but keep others' details private.

After the circle, stay for a wholesome plant-based dinner and dessert ($20 or $10 for students). Sharing a meal is a simple way to extend the sense of community and connection. This gathering is offered on a non-profit basis.

Meet Your Host: Sri Jiva

Since childhood, Sri Jiva has been fascinated by meaning, purpose, and authentic life fulfilment. This, among other things, led him to join a monastery at the age of 19. After years of monastic training, he chose to marry and pursue a career. He felt called to use his monastic experience to help others understand themselves, and to find wisdom, meaning, and purpose in their own lives. Inspired by this calling, he went to university to study counselling. Now, Sri Jiva and his wife live near Wellington, where he works with a small team of counsellors, supporting clients individually and in groups.

Agenda

🕑: 05:45 PM - 06:00 PM
Arrive to Bhakti Lounge
🕑: 06:00 PM - 07:00 PM
Men's Circle: Real Conversations
Host: Hosted by Sri Jiva
🕑: 07:00 PM - 08:15 PM
Optional Plant-based dinner and dessert!