Meet IRL x Milli | ~ Queer ~ Curated Speed Dating | Ages 30+

Looking to meet someone great in person? Our curated speed dating events bring together compatible singles in a fun, low-pressure setting designed to spark real connections. This specific event is for our community of queer women & non-binary folx ages 30+. Check out our other upcoming events if this one isn't for you!

Milli by Metric is a stunning all-day café and bakery in Chicago’s Avondale serving specialty coffee, pastries, seasonal food, and a curated selection of wine by the glass or bottle — all highly delicious and playful. Come ready to enjoy!

How it works:

• Purchase your ticket based on your age and gender—you'll tell us who you'd like to meet later.
• After checkout, check your confirmation email for a link to set up your profile in our Meet IRL app.
• In the app, you'll answer a few quick questions to help us match you with the most compatible people in the room!

What to expect:

• We’re a small, queer-owned business and care deeply about creating high-quality, welcoming events. We’ll be there throughout the night to facilitate, answer questions, and make sure you have a great experience.
• Arrive between 5-5.15pm to check in, grab a drink, and mingle before we get started - please note, arriving on time is important!
• You’ll rotate through 8–10 one-on-one “mini dates” at different tables. Think of each round as a vibe check—short, intentional conversations with optional prompts to keep things flowing.
• After the dates end, we encourage you to stick around, grab a drink, and meet even more new people at the bar.
• An hour after the event, you’ll be connected with mutual matches to carry on the conversation!

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Our Curated Speed Dating Winter Series is sponsored by , a new Chicago-based dating newsletter and podcast that highlights amazing local singles who are seeking something meaningful. Just like us, they believe real connection starts with actually getting to know someone — not swiping on strangers based on a few random prompts. If you’re ready to put yourself out there and show other Chicago singles what you’re all about (or have a great single friend you’d like to nominate), ! Be sure to sign up for their for subscriber-exclusive features and give the podcast a listen!

Access Notes

• Milli is a fully accessible location, and masks are available upon request.
• This event involves frequent moving between tables and standing for periods of time; if this is difficult for any reason, just let us know ahead of the event and we’ll make a plan.
• For any other accessibility needs, please reach out before the event—we’ll do our best to accommodate.
• Sliding scale tickets are available—email us at [email protected].

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