How Not to Flee a War

Synopsis
How NOT to Flee a War is a first-hand talk by Ukrainian journalist Maria Romanenko, co-presented with her partner Jez Myers, telling the story of their attempt to escape Kyiv as Russia launched its full-scale invasion on 24 February 2022.

What begins as a surreal morning of explosions and disbelief quickly becomes a frantic and uncertain decision: whether to stay, where to go, and how to leave a city rapidly emptying under threat. Built around their real journey out of Ukraine, the talk uses personal storytelling and images from the road to show what the first days of invasion felt like from the inside.

Rather than a polished narrative of survival, Maria and Jez describe the experience with blunt honesty and dark humour - the endless traffic, exhaustion, panic, misinformation, and the reality of borders under pressure. Through Maria's perspective as a Ukrainian, and Jez's as a British partner caught inside the unfolding disaster, the talk becomes both a gripping personal account and a wider reflection on displacement, resilience, and what it means to lose your home overnight.

The talk has already been presented at the Senedd (Welsh Parliament) and continues to tour widely, with appearances scheduled at the Scottish and Danish Parliaments, Aviva Studios in Manchester, and a headline slot at Lewes Speakers Festival in 2026.

Biographies
Maria Romanenko is a Ukrainian journalist and co-founder of All For Ukraine. Formerly Editor-in-Chief of Hromadske International, one of Ukraine's best-known news organisations, she is the only Ukrainian recipient of the Prime Minister's Points of Light Award. Since relocating to the UK, Maria has focused on supporting displaced Ukrainians and raising awareness through talks, including the widely delivered How NOT to Flee a War. She has conducted over 1,000 mainstream media interviews since arriving in the UK and is a regular commentator across national and international channels.

Jez Myers is a community champion and CEO of All For Ukraine. A recipient of Manchester City Council's prestigious Pride of Manchester Award, he brings a dual background in business consultancy and civic engagement. After fleeing Ukraine with Maria, Jez has advised local and national bodies on supporting displaced Ukrainians, as well as assisting multiple Ukrainian charities. He is also Chairperson of the Spirit of Manchester Awards, the largest voluntary sector awards in the North West of England.

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