BEYOND JEALOUSY: Shadow Work for Ethical Non-Monogamy

Schedule

Fri Mar 13 2026 at 07:30 pm to 10:30 pm

UTC-04:00

Location

Near Herald Square, Address in email confirmation additional info section | New York, NY

Immerse yourself in a Pagans Paradise Signature experience: a themed gathering blending connection, education, and demonstrations!
About this Event

K!nky Shadow Work Series
BEYOND JEALOUSY: Shadow Work for Ethical Non-Monogamy
Event Details

  • đź•— Workshop: 7:30pm
  • đź•— Event ends: 10:30pm
  • 📍 Location: Herald Square NYC (Full address provided in your confirmation email)
  • 🌟 Accessibility: This venue has elevator access

Join us in the fun and enticing worlds of K!nk and Tantric practice.(Non-Sex based)

🌀 What to Expect: Jealousy is one of the most misunderstood—and most potent—emotional messengers in ethical non-monogamy and k!nk. Too often, we treat jealousy like a problem to be eliminated or a shameful flaw to be hidden. But what if jealousy is actually a sacred signal from your shadow—a call to reclaim the parts of yourself that long to be seen, held, and integrated? In Beyond Jealousy: Shadow Work for ENM & k!nk, we invite you to step courageously into the fire of this emotion, not to be consumed by it, but to be transformed. Through a blend of Jungian shadow work, somatic embodiment, Internal Family Systems-style parts work, and relational tools tailored for ENM and k!nk contexts, this workshop guides you into the heart of jealousy—where clarity, self-love, and empowerment await.

Come for the workshop and stay for the Jam to practice what you learned and connect with other curious, conscious folks in the lifestyIe.

This is not just a class—it's a ritual space of healing, reclamation, and deep insight. You’ll map your jealousy triggers, explore the unmet needs beneath them, and learn how to listen to your jealousy without becoming overwhelmed by it. Through partner practices, body-based exercises, guided visualizations, and integration tools, you’ll build a personalized toolkit to navigate jealousy with presence, compassion, and power. Whether you’re solo, partnered, or part of a polycule, this experience will support you in transmuting jealousy into a portal for deeper connection—with yourself, your lovers, and your desires. Come ready to move, feel, witness, and evolve.



What You'll Learn:

đź’ś What jealousy really is (from a shadow work lens.)

đź’ś How to track it in your body and nervous system.

đź’ś The unmet needs and protective parts hiding beneath it.

đź’ś How to somatically release jealousy when it arises.

đź’ś Tools for communication, integration, and ritual healing.

đź’ś How to turn jealousy into deeper intimacy with yourself and your partners.


This is a trauma-informed, k!nk-aware, non-monogamy-affirming space. All genders, orientations, and relationship styles welcome. You do not need to be currently partnered to attend. This workshop involves potentially activating material around jealousy, trauma, and emotional safety. Please come prepared to take care of yourself. You are always welcome to pass, pause, or step away from any activity. A resource corner and support options will be available.

đź§° What to Wear / What to Bring:

  • Comfortable clothes you can move and sit in for extended periods
  • A journal and pen
  • Water bottle and snacks
  • Optional: personal objects for comfort (crystals, pillows, etc.)
    Curiosity, compassion, and a willingness to go deep


About Facilitators

Danny and Vanessa are trauma-informed Psychedelic Integration, lntimacy and relationship coaches who specialize in helping couples heal and thrive through sacred connection. With over a decade of experience studying tantra, psychedelic integration, and somatic practices, they bring a unique blend of ancient wisdom and modern science to their teaching.

Vanessa and Danny’s journey from toxic relationship patterns to tantric intimacy has fueled their passion to guide others toward emotional safety and fulfillment. Through lntimacy tool like psychedelic therapies, tantra, somatic, k!nk and pleasure healing Danny and Vanessa offer a compassionate approach rooted in trauma healing and nervous system regulation. Together, they’ve created transformative workshops, coaching programs, and events that inspire couples to embrace vulnerability, passion, and deep connection.
Https://SovereignLove.NYC


TICKETS

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🎟️ Workshop Only $45

LATE ENTRY AND REFUNDS

Refunds must be requested 7 days prior to event - if you can't make it, please gift or sell your ticket to a worthy soul. To protect the space, late arrivals will not be admitted after doors close, and refunds will not be provided.

Important Notice

Pagans Paradise events are intended for educational and entertainment purposes, and attendees participate at their own risk. Some events may involve physical or emotional exploration, and by attending, you agree to take personal responsibility for your well-being. Pagans Paradise upholds Eventbrite's community guidelines, this event is not sex-based, hookup-style, explicit, or pornographic, and all activities within our events are consensual, respectful, and professionally guided.



ABOUT US
At Pagans Paradise, we believe in creating a welcoming, joyful space for everyone to explore connection, dive into a range of educational resources, and nurture their authentic selves.
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Pagans Paradise has been fostering joy and connection in the community for 10 years.
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Where is it happening?

Near Herald Square, Address in email confirmation additional info section, herald square, New York, United States
Tickets

USD 49.87 to USD 87.21

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