AFTERBURN: An Intimate Sapphic Dating Experience

Sick of awkward small talk and constantly being asked "so, what do you do for work?" AFTERBURN is a night for boldness, flirtation, and undeniable chemistry. This is an intentional, sensual, and highly interactive dating experience for lesbians and the entire sapphic community. Whether flirting isn't your strong suit, you're craving intimacy, or you're tired of endlessly swiping with no plans to meet up, this event has exactly what you need.

The night flows through three phases of increasing heat and connection:

Round 1: FOREPLAY (The Intros) Get in the "Sexy Seat" and introduce yourself to the room by answering one of our sapphic-friendly questions.

Round 2: THE MAIN COURSE (Guided Spicy Prompts) This is your time to play. Find a partner to complete each spicy challenge listed on our "Main Course Menu." Throughout the night you'll choose from tasks like: working together to fold origami hearts, choreographing a sensual dance routine, recreating a "sexy couples photo shoot," and even more depending on your spice tolerance.

Round 3: PILLOW TALK (Deep Connection) Sit down with your top matches for 15 minutes of guided, deep conversation.

This is the official launch of Tip of My Tongue. Thank you for being part of the foundation. As this is a pop-up experience, this may be our only Los Angeles date for 2026—don't miss your chance to get a taste.

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• Ages: 21+
• Parking: Free street parking on Sundays and multiple public parking garages
• Who: This event is for anyone under the sapphic umbrella—lesbians, bisexuals, pansexuals, and queer folks looking for women/femme-aligned partners. Trans and Non-Binary inclusive!
• Consent is the Sexiest Thing in the Room: We have a zero-tolerance policy for non-consensual behavior. Every task on the menu requires an enthusiastic "Yes." You are always in control of your spice level.
• Dress Code: Whatever makes you feel sexy!
• Must arrive by 8 pm in order to guarantee entrance
• To support our venue and keep these events possible, we encourage a one-drink minimum per guest (they have a great selection of both alcoholic and non-alcoholic options!)

By entering the event premises, you consent to being photographed, filmed, and/or otherwise recorded. These materials may be used for promotional purposes on the Tip of My Tongue social media and marketing platforms.

Info: Get in the "Sexy Seat" and introduce yourself to the room by answering one of our sapphic-friendly questions.

Info: Find a partner to complete each spicy challenge listed on our "Main Course Menu." Throughout the night you'll choose from tasks like: working together to fold origami hearts, choreographing a sensual dance routine, recreating a "sexy couples photo shoot," and even more depending on your spice tolerance.

Info: Sit down with your top matches for 15 minutes of guided, deep conversation.

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