[30s-40s] Vibe First Swipe Later: An Offline Conscious Dating Social

Back for its 14th running!

It’s a connection-first social where attraction is allowed to emerge naturally.

This edition of Vibe First, Swipe Later is a guided social experience designed for people who want real conversations, good energy, and an evening that feels easy to be in.

Just thoughtful prompts, playful games, and small-group rotations that help people relax, open up, and connect naturally.

You’ll be guided through:

Light, playful prompts

Relatable human questions

Moments that spark laughter and ease instead of awkward introductions.

Emotional trivia (fun + reflective and light-hearted)

Small-group rotations so you meet as many people as you can

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Whether you’re looking for new friendships, soulful chemistry, or simply an evening that feels real, this isn’t your usual singles event.

Date: 14 February 2026, Saturday(30s - late 40s)

Time: 7:30 PM – 9:30 PM

Venue: 195 Pearl's Hill Terrace (Chinatown MRT)

Tickets: $28 (Males) | $25 (Females)

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It’s not speed dating.

It’s not matchmaking.

It’s psychology-based connection in real time.

Through guided conversations, themed activities, and maybe a few serendipitous moments, you’ll get to meet people who value emotional depth, self-awareness, and safety in connection.

🎟️ Only 25-30 spots available — we close sign-ups once we hit gender balance

• A psychology-based conscious dating social
• Meet people through guided activities, group conversations and unexpected moments
• Note-passing (drop a message for someone you vibed with)
• A relaxed and cozy vibe in SG's old school art enclave

• Singles in from their 30s to late 40s
• Looking to meet others who value emotional maturity, safety, and connection
• Prefer real connection over chemistry alone
• Open to socialising
• Want to better understand their relational patterns and date intentionally
• Are open to psychological insights, prompts, activities
• Males and females
• Read FAQ at the bottom of this page

Vibe First, Swipe Later is a conscious dating social — part insightful, part intentional mingling. This event is grounded in attachment theory and real-world psychology.

A psychology-based conscious dating social event held in Singapore. Designed and hosted by So You Socials, the social arm of The Conscious Mind Psychotherapy practice.

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FAQ

How many people will be there? We close ticket sales between 25-35 pax. Tickets are always sold with a close to 50–50 male–female balance. We don’t segment participants by age or other demographic specifics other than the indicated age bracket. Our focus is on creating meaningful, vibe-based connections rather than strict criteria. We ensure a fair mix nonetheless. A match-making service will be more appropriate if you prefer matching based on very specific demographic factors.

What are their ages? There are two age brackets held monthly. 20s to late 30s and 30s to late 40s.

I don't know what age group to attend. According to your preference.

Is there food? There isn't. The event starts relatively late into the evening (7.30pm) - kindly have your dinner first.

Is this speed dating? It isn't. If you prefer being matched with specific demographics, a match-making event will suit you better.

What are we going to be doing? Through guided conversations, themed activities, and maybe a few serendipitous moments, you’ll get to meet people who value emotional depth, self-awareness, and safety in connection.

I'm nervous. We consciously designed the event to be as social-anxiety friendly as possible.

Event policy. Click to view.

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