30-40s: Vibe First, Swipe Later - An Offline Conscious Dating Social

Back for its 11th running!

Vibe First, Swipe Later: Games Night Edition

Dating doesn’t have to feel like an interview or a performance.

This Games Night Edition is designed for singles who want to meet others in a relaxed, playful way, without small talk fatigue or dating app awkwardness.

Through thoughtfully curated group games, you’ll get to observe how people think, communicate, laugh, and relate. No forced pairings. No speed dating scripts. Just real interactions that let chemistry emerge naturally.
This night is about:

• Seeing people in motion, not profiles
• Connecting through shared moments, not rehearsed answers
• Letting personality and values surface without pressure

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Whether you’re looking for new friendships, soulful chemistry, or simply an evening that feels real, this isn’t your usual singles event.

Date: 15 January 2026, Thursday (20s-late 30s)

Time: 7:30 PM – 9:30 PM

Venue: 195 Pearl's Hill Terrace (Chinatown MRT)

Tickets: $28 (Males) | $25 (Females)

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It’s not speed dating.

It’s not matchmaking.

It’s psychology-based connection in real time.

Through guided conversations, themed activities, and maybe a few serendipitous moments, you’ll get to meet people who value emotional depth, self-awareness, and safety in connection.

🎟️ Only 20-25 spots available — we close sign-ups once we hit gender balance

• A psychology-based conscious dating social
• Meet people through guided activities, group conversations and unexpected moments
• Note-passing (drop a message for someone you vibed with)
• A relaxed and cozy vibe in SG's old school art enclave

• Singles in from their 20s to late 30s
• Looking to meet others who value emotional maturity, safety, and connection
• Prefer real connection over chemistry alone
• Open to socialising
• Want to better understand their relational patterns and date intentionally
• Are open to psychological insights, prompts, activities
• Males and females
• Read FAQ at the bottom of this page

Vibe First, Swipe Later is a conscious dating social — part insightful, part intentional mingling. This event is grounded in attachment theory and real-world psychology.

A psychology-based conscious dating social event held in Singapore. Designed and hosted by So You Socials, the social arm of The Conscious Mind Psychotherapy practice.

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FAQ

How many people will be there? We close ticket sales between 25-35 pax. Tickets are always sold with a close to 50–50 male–female balance. We don’t segment participants by age or other demographic specifics other than the indicated age bracket. Our focus is on creating meaningful, vibe-based connections rather than strict criteria. We ensure a fair mix nonetheless. A match-making service will be more appropriate if you prefer matching based on very specific demographic factors.

What are their ages? There are two age brackets held monthly. 20s to late 30s and 30s to late 40s.

I don't know what age group to attend. According to your preference.

Is there food? There isn't. The event starts relatively late into the evening (7.30pm) - kindly have your dinner first.

Is this speed dating? It isn't. If you prefer being matched with specific demographics, a match-making event will suit you better.

What are we going to be doing? Through guided conversations, themed activities, and maybe a few serendipitous moments, you’ll get to meet people who value emotional depth, self-awareness, and safety in connection.

I'm nervous. We consciously designed the event to be as social-anxiety friendly as possible.

Event policy. Click to view.

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