2026 Lawyer Wellness Retreat
Schedule
Thu Oct 15 2026 at 08:00 am to 11:30 pm
UTC-04:00Location
Treetops Resort | Gaylord, MI
About this Event
Thursday, October 15, 2026 -- Sunday, October 18, 2026
Treetops Resort, Gaylord, Michigan
Register for the first ever Lawyer Wellness Retreat hosted by the Negligence Section and American Board of Trial Advocates.
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Registration Rate - $799
Housing accommodations are NOT included in the registration fee. Reservation information will be sent in a follow-up email. Reservations need to be made on your own, within our group block at Treetops Resort. Hotel room rates are set for $160/night, plus daily resort fee and taxes.
For hotel reservations, please call: 855-261-8764
For our reduced rate, provide our group name: Negligence Section.
Accommodations are available in both King and Queen rooms, from 10/15/26 โ 10/18/26, at $160/night + resort fee ($20) + taxes.
Room reservations must be made prior to Monday, August 31, 2026. Availability after 8/31/26 is not guaranteed.
Hotel check-in time: 5:00 p.m.
Check-out time: 12:00 p.m.
Cancellation Policy:
If you cancel prior to 9/1/26 - a $200.00 fee will be retained for processing. The remainder of the registration rate, less online transaction fees, will be refunded. If you cancel on or after 9/1/26 - 100% non-refundable.
Should you need to cancel, we encourage you to secure a person to attend in your place, instead. The section can transfer registration from one person to another without assessing any fees.
Thursday
ARRIVAL AND ORIENTATION
๐: 06:00 PM - 07:00 PM
Dinner
๐: 07:00 PM - 08:30 PM
Opening Session: Why Well-Being Matters in Adversarial Work
Info: Weโll open with reflections on the toll of practice - constant exposure to suffering, conflict, and high client expectations - and explore why well-being and civility are not luxuries but professional skills. Participants will set retreat norms of trust, confidentiality, and curiosity.
๐: 05:00 PM - 06:00 PM
Check-in
Friday
THE INNER WORK OF THE LEGAL PROFESSIONAL
๐: 09:00 AM - 10:30 AM
What Are You Carrying? Burdens, Values, and Identity as Legal Professionals
Info: Legal professionals are often seen only through the lens of their role: tough, strategic, adversarial. This session invites participants to surface the joys and burdens they carry privately, and to articulate their core values. What do you want clients, litigants, colleagues, and adversaries to truly see in you? How can values guide your work?
๐: 10:30 AM - 11:00 AM
Break
๐: 11:00 AM - 12:00 PM
From Empathy to Professional Compassion: Serving Clients and Litigants Without
Info: Legal practice places lawyers and judges at the center of human suffering. Empathy for clients and litigants is natural, but when empathy becomes over-identification, it drains resilience and clouds judgment. This session draws a sharp line between empathy and professional compassion. Through case scenarios and guided reflection, participants will practice shifting from โfeeling withโ clients to โacting forโ them, so they can advocate effectively while sustaining their own well-being.
๐: 12:00 PM - 01:00 PM
Lunch
๐: 01:00 PM - 02:30 PM
The Art of Noticing: Attention as a Hidden Superpower
Info: Good legal work and judgment depends on noticing details others miss, both in people and in cases. Yet constant hurry and distraction erode this capacity. This session blends research and practice to sharpen attention: noticing your clientโs needs, noticing your adversaryโs humanity, and noticing when your own well-being is at risk.
๐: 02:30 PM - 02:45 PM
Break
๐: 02:45 PM - 04:00 PM
Wisdom from Working Mothers: Strategies for Managing the Impossible Schedule.
Saturday
PRACTICING CIVILITY AND RESILIENCY IN ADVERSARIAL SPACES
๐: 09:00 AM - 10:30 AM
Triggers, Conflict, and Emotional Agility in Practice
Info: Legal work often puts lawyers and judges face-to-face with aggressive tactics, angry clients, and their own stress responses. This session explores how our brains react under pressure (negativity bias, โamygdala hijackโ) and offers tools to shift from reactivity to purposeful response.
๐: 10:30 AM - 10:45 AM
Break
๐: 10:45 AM - 12:00 PM
Self-Compassion to Build Resiliency
Info: Lawyers and judges rarely extend themselves the compassion they offer to clients. This session introduces self-compassion as a practical skill for legal professionals, drawing on mindfulness, kindness, and recognition of shared humanity. Participants will design personal strategies for sustaining themselves in tough cases.
๐: 12:00 PM - 01:00 PM
Lunch
๐: 01:00 PM - 02:30 PM
Visioning a Sustainable Career in Law
Info: What would it look like to practice law in a way that sustains rather than drains you? Through guided reflection and discussion, participants will envision the kind of legal professional they want to be, then identify daily habits, boundaries, and professional practices that align with that vision.
๐: 02:30 PM - 02:45 PM
Break
๐: 02:45 PM - 04:00 PM
The Cost of Burnout: How Stress Impacts Judicial and Legal Conduct.
Sunday
INTEGRATION AND COMMITMENTS
๐: 09:00 AM - 10:30 AM
Restorative Practices for Legal Professionals
Info: Adversarial work can take a toll on all of us. The life of a lawyer and judge can leave a toll that standard "self-care" advice rarely addresses. This session introduces restorative practices drawn from contemplative traditions and trauma-informed care, adapted for legal professionals. Participants will learn and experience brief practices for processing difficult professional moments, reconnecting with purpose after setbacks, and creating rituals of transition between work and life. The goal isn't to "fix" what's hard about legal practice, but to build a repertoire of tools for dealing with its inevitable costs.
๐: 10:30 AM - 10:45 AM
Break
๐: 10:45 AM - 12:00 PM
Closing Session: Takeaways and Commitments
Info: A collective reflection on key insights. Each participant will articulate one concrete practice to carry into their work to enhance well-being, compassion, and civility.
Where is it happening?
Treetops Resort, 3962 Wilkinson Road, Gaylord, United StatesEvent Location & Nearby Stays:
USD 854.43



