Why You Do That: 90 Minutes That Change How You See Everything
Why do I take things so personally?
Why do I keep having the same argument with the same person?
Why do I feel responsible for everyone around me?
Why do I react in ways I regret — and then can't explain, even to myself?
If you've been asking yourself questions like these, here's the good news: there are real answers. And once you have them, life starts working differently.
Here's what changes. The next time something upsets you, you'll be able to pause and recognize what's actually going on — that the intensity of your reaction is coming from somewhere inside you, somewhere with a history, and it usually has very little to do with the person in front of you.
That gap between what happens and how you respond? That gap is everything. It's the difference between a conversation and a blowup. Between letting a comment go and carrying it for a week. Between repeating the pattern and finally stepping out of it.
My clients tell me their relationships feel smoother within weeks. Their partners notice. One client's husband told her, "I don't know what you do on Wednesday mornings, and I don't care what it costs — please don't stop." And what most of them say is some version of: "I thought my life was fine. I had no idea I could feel this good."
What you'll walk away with:
A completely new lens for understanding yourself — the kind that makes years of confusion about your own reactions suddenly make sense
The ability to recognize, in the moment, when it's your own stuff getting touched — so other people's words and moods stop feeling so personal
The questions to ask yourself when you're upset, so you can respond instead of react
Real answers to why you repeat certain patterns — and why nothing you've read or tried has changed them yet
Who this is for: The accomplished woman who did everything right and still feels like something's off. People rave about you, and you don't quite see what they see. You don't have to choose between your ambition and your peace — the drive that built your life stays.
This workshop is where the peace gets added.
Facilitated by Heather Dempsey, self-awareness and emotional intelligence coach. Heather's clients regularly tell her they came in thinking life was fine — and are now happier than they've ever been.
Space is intentionally limited to keep the experience personal, with seating for up to 12 guests.
Registration is required and closes the day before the event.
If registration has closed but you’d still like to attend, feel free to text to check for last-minute availability.
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