Tom Junod - In the Days of My Youth I Was Told What It Means to Be

Name: Tom Junod - In the Days of My Youth I Was Told What It Means to Be
Start: 2026-03-10T19:00:00-04:00
Location: Jimmy Carter Presidential Library

Schedule

Tue, 10 Mar, 2026 at 07:00 pm

UTC-04:00

Location

Jimmy Carter Presidential Library | Atlanta, GA

From two-time National Magazine Award winner Tom Junod, a searching, brilliantly stylized memoir about a charismatic, philandering father who tried to mold his son in his image, the many secrets he hid, the son’s obsessive quest to uncover them, and ultimately, the true meaning of manhood.��
A Cappella Books is delighted to welcome Tom Junod to the Jimmy Carter Presidential Library to celebrate the release of his long awaited memoir “In the Days of My Youth I Was Told What It Means to Be a Man” Junod will appear in conversation with award-winning author and journalist, Melissa Fay Greene.
This event is free and open to the public. Copies of the book will be available for purchase at the venue.
About the Book
Big Lou Junod dominated every room he entered. He worshipped the sun and the sea, his own bronzed body, Frank Sinatra, and beautiful women. He was a successful traveling handbag salesman who carried himself like a celebrity. He’d return from the road with stories of going to nightclubs where the stars—Ava Gardner, maybe Liz Taylor—“couldn’t keep their eyes off . . . your father.” He had countless affairs and didn’t do much to hide them.
Lou could be cruel to Fran, his wife of fifty-nine years, but he loved his youngest son. Tom was a skin-and-bones, nervous boy, devoted to his mother, but Lou sought to turn him into a version of himself. He showered him with advice about how to dress (“A turtleneck is the most flattering thing a man can wear”), how to be an alpha male, and especially, how to attract and bed women. His parting speech when Tom went to college was: “Do yourself a favor and date a Jewish girl. They’re all nymphos.” When Tom started seeing his future wife, Janet, Lou’s efforts to entice Tom into his version of manhood accelerated on nights in New York, L.A., and Paris.
Tom wrestled with Lou’s imposing presence all his life. When one of Lou’s mistresses stood up at his funeral and announced, “Can we all . . . just agree . . . that this . . . was a man,” Tom set off to learn the facts of his father’s life, and why he was the way he was. The stunning secrets he uncovered—about his father, his father’s lovers, and deceptions going back generations—staggered Tom, but in the process allowed him, at last, to become his own man, by his own lights.
“In the Days of My Youth I Was Told What It Means to Be a Man” is an intensely emotional detective story powered by a series of cascading revelations. The book is a triumph of bravura writing; it is a tale of a son reckoning with the consequences of his father’s life, and in the end, the story of the son’s redemption.
�About the Author
Tom Junod is senior writer for ESPN, where his work has won an Emmy and the Dan Jenkins Medal for Excellence in Sportswriting. He is a two-time winner of the National Magazine Award for Feature Writing, and a winner of the James Beard Award for essay writing. Previously he was a staff writer at GQ and Esquire. The film “A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood” was based on his article in Esquire. He lives in Atlanta with his wife and daughter.
About the Conversation Partner�
Melissa Fay Greene is the author of “No Biking in the House Without a Helmet,” “Praying for Sheetrock,” “The Temple Bombing,” “Last Man Out,” and “There Is No Me Without You.” Two of her books have been finalists for the National Book Award, and New York University's journalism department named Praying for Sheetrock one of the top one hundred works of journalism in the twentieth century. She has written for The New Yorker, The Washington Post, The New York Times Magazine, Atlantic Monthly, Good Housekeeping, Newsweek, Life, Reader's Digest, Redbook, and Salon, among others. She and her husband, Don Samuel, have nine children and live in Atlanta.