Tender Tindering LISBON - Conscious Speed Dating
Schedule
Fri Nov 22 2024 at 06:30 pm to 10:30 pm
UTC+00:00Location
Feel2B - Desenvolvimento Humano | Lisbon, LI
TENDER TINDERING~ get to know yourself and meet others
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~ Open yourself to love, get to know yourself better, find friends, get inspired, have fun in the company of interesting people ~
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* Curiosity * Authentic Relating * Honest Communication * Tenderness *Presence * Fun * Conscious Relationships * Speed Dating * Consent * Heart-Connection * Boundaries * Intimacy *
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Let's face it - dating in the 21st century is a real nut to crack. In the days of Tinder, we scroll through online profiles, watching stylized avatars posing like peacocks in front of us. In 5 seconds a person is reviewed and we have a verdict. Right or left?
What if we redefined what this whole dating thing means? Without avatars, masks and all the online bullshit? What if we established new relationships consciously, in full presence, sharing honestly and vulnerably, listening, slowly building intimacy, communicating our desires, needs, boundaries for the moment?
Sounds intriguing?
Together we will create a laboratory / container to explore the connections on the mind, heart, spirit and body level with other like-minded people. A chance to meet beautiful beings in a conscious and open way, as well as to meet oneself deeply in building new relationships with others. If you cringe hearing the word "speed dating" in the title of the event, then take a deep breath - we invite you to a completely new format that has not been there before. Come, laugh and discover. It will most likely be a brand new approach to dating you've never experienced before.
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Tender Tindering - Conscious Speed Dating is a funnier, more tender and deeper take on classic speed dating.
Attention! This experience can change how you relate to people and will give you the skills to help healthy relationships flourish. It is an extraordinary opportunity to meet interesting and open-minded people, and to create deep, satisfying connections.
You will randomly have deeper meetings with about 15 people and a few shorter meetings in another bunch of people. This edition of the Tender Tindering is inviting you to meet people regardless of their s-x, gender or identification. The matching during the event will be random with no particular order.
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The exercises are both fun and profound, creating a beautiful opportunity to get a feel for how you relate to a new person beyond the traditional “where are you from?” and “what do you do for work?” chat. We created this event using the tools of building authentic relationships and practices of feeling each other on subtle levels. So that, using our senses, we can connect with people and feel what we are like beyond nationalities, professional titles and superficial veils.
All this in a beautiful, safe space where your true self is gently brought to the surface and celebrated. You will learn tools for conscious communication and tender intimacy, spend an inspiring evening with interesting people, and maybe even meet someone special
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Come with an open mind, curiosity and willingness to open your heart
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We can't wait to dive into this experience with you!
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PRACTICALITIES
Our fundamental principle is full consciousness - this space is free from any type of alcohol/drugs. Come 100% SOBER.In classic speed dating, we would immediately start with conversations. It's different with us.
Our evening together consists of 5 parts:
1. Arrival and registration between 18:15 and 18:30. Please arrive on time - doors open at 18:15 and close at 18:30. We start at 18:30.
2. We will begin by landing in the space together through facilitated movement and meditation, connecting you with your intentions and desires for the evening. We welcome all our authentic feelings, both excitement and fear, we let go of expectations, stress and performance anxiety. We prepare to start from a grounded, soft and tender place.
3. Together we will discuss values, arrangements and boundaries of the event, so that everyone feels safe in the space and feels free to open up as far as it is comfortable for them.
4. Conscious speed dating. Tender Tindering is a laboratory of exploration. Some of the exercises are designed to examine how we feel in the presence of another person. All exercises at our event are an invitation, not a requirement. You always work to your limits, sense of security and comfort.
5. Closing circle and conscious mingling & matching.
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FOR WHOM?
✦ For those curious about themselves, others, the world, open-minded
✦ For people who don't like to put on masks and strategise how to meet new people
✦ For anyone who desires more authentic connections in their lives
✦ For those who like to meet people in real life, who think outside the box
✦ For people who are bored with stiff, artificial, boring conversations
✦ For those who are looking for more closeness, intimacy, tenderness and presence in their relationships
✦ For anyone who wants to experience deeper dating
✦ For those who want to explore love without fear
✦ Tender Tindering is for people wanting to connect, not only singles - your relationship status does not matter.
This edition of Tender Tindering is non-binary i.e. we invite people of any identifications and open to meet other humans regardless of their s-x, gender, identification or preferences. We welcome you if you are cis heterosexual and not afraid to have an intimate (no touch needed) meeting with the same gender. We welcome you if you identify as queer or non-binary and simply love to meet over beings.
AND this event is only for people 21+
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WHERE AND WHEN:
18:30 - 22:30, Friday, 22.11.2024
Feel2B - Espaço para Sentir, Espaço para Ser
R. Rainha Dona Luísa de Gusmão 4D,
1600-686
Lisbon
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TICKETS:
First Tickets: 22€
Regular Tickets: 29€
Last Tickets & on the door: 33€
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tickets are available on this page: https://buytickets.at/erosmedicine/1449050
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SALE AT THE DOOR:
In the unlikely case that the tickets for the event are not sold out, first come first served tickets will be available at the entrance. We are waiting for you until 18:30 latest
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* REFUND POLICY:
Due to the nature of this event, the ticket is non-refundable. If you cancel your participation at latest 24 hours before the event, you can transfer your ticket to any of Aleksandra Maria Love's workshops within the next one year.
In case you need to cancel, please let us know in advance.
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QUESTIONS about the event?
Contact us at [email protected]
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CREATION OF TENDER TINDERING:
Tender Tindering - Conscious Speed Dating is a co-creation of two Polish social entrepreneurs Aleksandra Maria Love and Kasia Chojnacka.
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FACILITATION OF YOUR LISBON EVENT:
Main facilitator: Aleksandra Maria Love:
For the past 15 years, Aleksandra has been leading transformative group processes and creating spaces where one can experience a new culture of togetherness. She offers teachings on overcoming shame, embracing all parts of oneself, and healing through touch and pleasure. Holding a Master's degree in Social and Cultural Psychology from the LSE, she primarily operates in Portugal, Germany, and Poland. A pioneer of Berlin's sacred sex-positivity scene, she is the producer and facilitator of events like Eros Medicine and Power of Eros. For the past 7 years, she has been organizing sexual shamanism training with ISTA (International School of Temple Arts). In Poland, she co-creates Tender Tinder, Temples of Soulfulness, and the Milk'n'Honey Festival (milknhoneyfestival.art) – the first consciously sex-positive festival in Poland. From her, you will receive messages about personal freedom, unapologetic self-love, compassion, grounding in one's truth, and erotic liberation. Her mission is to bring heaven to earth, where the soul fully inhabits the body.
Supporting facilitator: Beatriz Magalhães:
Meet Beatriz Magalhães, a 27-year-old Portuguese artist originally from the North of Portugal and currently residing in Lisbon. With a focus on Textile Art, Sculpture, Photography, and performance, Beatriz's work is marked by themes of conscious intimacy, sensuality, and eroticism. She has spent over a decade as a model for life drawing sessions, schools, and photography projects, while also pursuing alternative interests such as massage and therapy art. Beyond modeling, Beatriz is a versatile creative, working as a performer, cook, facilitator for therapy art events related to intimacy, and a skilled massagist. In her free time, she enjoys writing and photography as personal hobbies. A true freelancer, Beatriz is an alternative model and artist, weaving a diverse range of talents into a compelling tapestry of creativity and self-expression.
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Testimonials from Tender Tindering participants:
"What I especially like about this form of dating, is the moment to look into each other's eyes and breathe together consciously. Thanks to this, I felt that I'm in a meeting with the other heart, not at a job interview." ~ Tom
"Thanks to this evening, my relationships with women will change. I experienced how beneficial it is to focus more on what my heart feels with a new person instead of following thoughts and ideas about the other person." ~ Thomas
"A cathartic experience. Showing the harmony and bliss we can achieve in authenticity." ~ Martin"An evening full of super emotions with wonderful people " ~ Jarek
Where is it happening?
Feel2B - Desenvolvimento Humano, Rua Rainha Dona Luísa de Gusmão 4D, 1600-686 Lisboa, Portugal,Lisbon, Portugal
