Talk Dirty to Me


Tue Feb 07 2023 at 07:00 pm to 10:00 pm


Arcana Bar and Lounge | Durham, NC

Discover Your Pleasure and Communicate Your Desire
About this Event

Does a partner ever ask what you want during playtime and you draw a blank? Do you feel nervous voicing how you like to be touched? Are you curious about the phrase compulsory sexuality? Come grab a yummy beverage and lean into your pleasure as we discuss concepts of arousal, desire, pleasure and communication with local sexuality educator, Kailey Delayne.

Please bring a journal/notebook and writing utensils if you want to participate in journaling activities. Some materials can be provided. If journaling isn't your thing, I encourage doodling, poetry, magazine clippings, fidget devices, or another sensorily satisfactory substitute.

Accessibility Notes: Arcana is located in a dimly lit basement bar with stairs and an elevator. If an elevator is required for entry, please speak to the person at the door, or someone within the bar. For access considerations, bring comforting items such as a favorite squishmallow or supportive pillow. There will be visual aids but ASL interpretations are not provided at this time. Masks are highly recommended but not required in this space. As a speaker, I will most likely not mask during the event but will distance myself and test beforehand.

Kailey Delayne is a local queer sexuality educator currently accredited by the Institute of Sexuality and Enlightenment. They delight in shedding light on sexual shame and revel in building pleasure practices as a radical act of self love and community care.

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Where is it happening?

Arcana Bar and Lounge, 331 West Main Street, Durham, United States

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USD 15.00 to USD 30.00

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