Strap-On 101: Harnessing the Heat

Do strap-ons make you curious? Excited? Nervous? Buckle up for a playful, sexy adventure and learn to harness the heat! Join pleasure coach and strap-on guru Steph Zapata for a no-experience-necessary workshop and get the real tea about how to choose, wear, please, and tease like a pro—all in a safe, judgment-free space designed to bring out your sexiest self. Singles, couples, all genders, all desires—this is your chance to explore, indulge, and master the art of pleasure. Leave awkwardness behind and step into a world of confident, seductive play where you're in control. Your next passionate ride awaits!

Doors at 7pm - Workshop starts 7:15pm. There will be time ot mix and mingle afterward.

This event is a workshop and not a play party: we encourage guests to wear whatever makes them feel sexy, but full nudity is not allowed. Participation in discussions and activities are optional. Partners, singles, tops and bottoms are encouraged to attend.

Host Bio

(they/she), Transformative Sex Educator, Somatic Impact Explorer and Pleasure Coach, is a well-seasoned NuyoRican award-winning, transformative sex
educator, professional dirty talker and impact artist. As a sensual practitioner, they lovingly guide folks toward finding pleasure and connection beyond societal restraints, making room for everyone. Their approach is both playful and skillful; honoring that sexual liberation invites radical self-acceptance, far removed from shame.

Steph prioritizes pleasure as a radical tool for healing and self-reclamation, viewing it as a
pathway to understanding our most authentic selves. Through practices like spanking,
flogging, dirty talk, Building a Daddy, and Domming, Steph emphasizes that play can
help heal the scars of colonial shame, offer space to reclaim agency, and live a life rooted
in joy. Incorporating talk, touch, and toys, Steph supports learners in embracing
pleasure as a guilt-free radical act of self-love.

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Health & Safety

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Hacienda Community

This event is hosted by Hacienda, a s-x positive community based in Brooklyn, NY. We host s-x positive events every week. Follow us on Instagram, like us on Facebook, or visit our website and sign up for our newsletter to hear first about all our events!

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