Speed Dating Ages 30s-40s in New Haven, CT at Bear's New Haven

Schedule

Mon Apr 20 2026 at 06:00 pm to 08:00 pm

UTC-04:00

Location

Bear's Smokehouse Barbecue | New Haven, CT

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Ready to meet local singles face-to-face? Join us for a fun, low-pressure evening of meaningful connections!
About this Event

Ditch the swiping and come meet real, local singles in person!

If you're tired of the same old routine, this is your chance to mix things up, meet new people, and have fun putting yourself out there! Our speed dating events make it easy and natural to spark connections—without the pressure of a full date.


Note on Age Range: While this event is primarily focused on singles in the age range specified in the title, this is only a suggestion—not a strict requirement. If you're slightly outside this range but feel you'd connect well with this group, you're welcome to join! Our goal is to create well-balanced events where everyone can meet compatible matches.



How the Evening Unfolds

Casual Mixer Kickoff: The night starts with a relaxed mingle where you can grab a drink (not included, but encouraged) and ease into the atmosphere before the dating rounds begin.

Guided Conversations: Not great at starting conversations? No worries! We provide an icebreaker question each round, and our high-energy host keeps things flowing smoothly.

Perfect-Length Connections: You'll have just enough time with each person to feel out their vibe before moving on to meet someone new—all in a positive, supportive, lighthearted, pressure-free atmosphere.

Simple Matching System: After each round, simply mark "friend," "date," or "none" on our easy matching system.


Match Contact Info Disclaimer:
By attending this event, you agree that if you have a mutual match with another participant, both of your contact details (email and phone number, if provided) will be shared with each other after the event so you can connect directly.
Contact information is only shared for mutual matches.
We believe in helping people meet in real life.. not keeping you on another messaging platform.



Important Details

⏰ Arrive 15–30 minutes early to settle in! We start promptly, and late arrivals may not be accommodated.


💡 Remember: This event is all about active listening, learning, and exploring connections. While many attendees do meet someone special, the key to enjoying the experience is focusing on meeting new people without specific expectations.


Space is limited to ensure quality interactions and a balanced group. Reserve your spot now!


Follow us @sipsandsparks on social media for event updates, sneak peeks, and surprise promo codes! 🎉


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Event Terms & Policies


Important Safety Notice
Please read carefully: Sips and Sparks does NOT conduct background checks, verify identities, or screen participants in any way. Just like any dating app or social platform, it is entirely your responsibility to exercise caution and perform your own due diligence on anyone you meet at our events.
We strongly encourage you to meet in public places for any follow-up dates and never share sensitive personal information (home address, financial details, etc.)
Your safety is your responsibility. By attending, you acknowledge that you understand these risks.
Age Guidelines & Inclusivity
The age range for this event is a general recommendation. We welcome all participants regardless of age or gender and do not verify this information at check-in. Our goal is to create a welcoming and enjoyable environment for everyone.


Match Contact Info Disclaimer:
By attending this event, you agree that if you have a mutual match with another participant, both of your contact details (email and phone number, if provided) will be shared with each other after the event so you can connect directly. Contact information is only shared for mutual matches.


We believe in helping people meet in real life.. not keeping you on another messaging platform.


Event Changes & Cancellations
We reserve the right to postpone or cancel events with insufficient registrations. If this happens, you’ll receive either a full refund or the option to transfer your ticket to another event.
Waitlist Information
When events sell out, join our waitlist through Eventbrite. You’ll receive an email notification when spots become available and can then secure your ticket through our Eventbrite page. Important: Tickets must be purchased in advance through Eventbrite only.
Accessibility Notice
Some venues may not have elevators or full accessibility features. If you need specific accommodations, please contact us at [email protected] before purchasing your ticket so we can confirm availability at that location.
Safety & Liability
By attending, you agree that participation is at your own risk. You release Sips and Sparks LLC, our team, venues, and partners from liability for any accidents, injuries, or damages that may occur during or after the event, including from interactions with other participants.
Photography & Social Media
We may take photos and videos during events for promotional purposes. By attending, you consent to being photographed and having your image used in our marketing materials.
Don’t want to be in photos? Simply let our event host know when you arrive, and we’ll make sure to respect your privacy.
Refund Policy
• 1+ week before event: Full refund guaranteed
• Less than 1 week: No refunds or transfers, but we may be able to provide a discount code for your next event, depending on the circumstances
• Medical emergencies only: Within 1 week, we’ll issue a one-time refund for illness, medical emergency, or death in the family with proper documentation
Questions? Email us at [email protected]


Agenda

🕑: 06:30 PM - 07:00 PM
Registration

Info: Check in to find your seat, name tag, and pull up the match sheet we'll be using throughout the event. Enjoy free mingling during this time to break the ice and get to know other attendees!


🕑: 07:00 PM - 07:50 PM
Speed dating rounds (first half)
🕑: 07:50 PM - 08:10 PM
Break

Info: Use the restroom, grab water, purchase drinks or snacks, stretch, and free-mingle!


🕑: 08:10 PM - 09:00 PM
Speed dating rounds (second half)
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Where is it happening?

Bear's Smokehouse Barbecue, 470 James Street, New Haven, United States

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Tickets

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