Slow Flame Temple

Name: Slow Flame Temple
Start: 2025-09-14T15:30:00+02:00
End: 2025-09-14T22:00:00+02:00
Location: Amsterdam - Netherlands

Schedule

Sun Sep 14 2025 at 03:30 pm to 10:00 pm

UTC+02:00

Location

Amsterdam - Netherlands | Amsterdam, NH

What if intimacy was not about a goal, but about a journey of 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲, 𝗮𝗹𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗽𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘀𝘂𝗿𝗲? We invite you to step into the space where slowness is celebrated and every touch is a sacred journey.
In modern society, intimacy is often approached in a very 𝗦𝗵𝗶𝘃𝗮 (𝘆𝗮𝗻𝗴/𝗺𝗮𝘀𝗰𝘂𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲) way: performative, fast, and goal-oriented. The focus tends to be on achievement and reaching the peak. Here, we open a different path: one that is more 𝗦𝗵𝗮𝗸𝘁𝗶 (𝘆𝗶𝗻/𝗳𝗲𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗲): attuned to safety, presence, playfulness, and the natural flow of life force energy.
Both Shiva and Shakti energies live within each of us, no matter our gender, and this temple invites you to explore how these polarities dance within you.

𝗪𝗛𝗢 𝗜𝗦 𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗦 𝗧𝗘𝗠𝗣𝗟𝗘 𝗙𝗢𝗥
You are welcome here whether this is your first temple or you’ve walked this path for years. All genders, sexual orientations, ages, backgrounds, and relationship constellations are welcome.
The only prerequisites are an 𝗼𝗽𝗲𝗻 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘁, 𝗰𝘂𝗿𝗶𝗼𝘀𝗶𝘁𝘆, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗮 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝘀’ 𝗯𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗮𝗿𝗶𝗲𝘀.
This is not a s*x party — it is a 𝘀𝗼𝗳𝘁 𝘁𝗮𝗻𝘁𝗿𝗶𝗰 𝘁𝗲𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝘀𝗽𝗮𝗰𝗲. Everything is guided by consent, you are always welcome to say no, redirect, or change your boundaries at any moment.

𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗧𝗢 𝗘𝗫𝗣𝗘𝗖𝗧
We’ll start with guided practices to connect with ourselves and the group, creating a safer and supportive container. This may include:
💫 Movement, breath, and meditation to connect with yourself
💫 Playful games for group connection
💫 Consent and boundaries
💫 Playing with the polarity of feminine & masculine energies within
💫 Exploring how the power of slowness, presence, and sensuality can awaken our most juicy energy
After the facilitated part, the temple opens into a space of 𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲-𝗳𝗹𝗼𝘄 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗹𝗼𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻, where you can pick your own adventure, the possibilities may include:
✨ Platonic cuddles
✨ Tantric practices, massage, and sensual play
✨ Exploring your kinky side with consent, feel free to bring your favorite toys (ropes, feathers, floggers, etc.)
✨ Dancing with yourself or others
✨ Chilling, connecting, and making new friends

𝗙𝗶𝗿𝘀𝘁 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗮 𝘁𝗲𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲? 𝗙𝗲𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗿𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘁𝗲𝗱? You’re welcome exactly as you are. Our priority is to make sure everyone feels included. We’ll have a support team available throughout the night for emotional support, and during open play there will be a connection games zone, a gentle space to land, meet people and go back to the flow if you ever feel lost.
𝗘𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴'𝘀 𝗮𝗻 𝗶𝗻𝘃𝗶𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 both during the guided part and the free flow.

𝗜𝗠𝗣𝗢𝗥𝗧𝗔𝗡𝗧 𝗗𝗘𝗧𝗔𝗜𝗟𝗦
🌷This is a sober space.
🌷The temple takes place in a beautiful venue in Amsterdam, close to Sloterdijk train station. The exact location will be shared once your application is accepted.
🌷We’ll provide some light vegan & vegetarian snacks and fruit. We be a potluck snack bar, please bring a dish, snack, or fruit to share.

𝗧𝗜𝗖𝗞𝗘𝗧𝗦 𝗔𝗡𝗗 𝗥𝗘𝗚𝗜𝗦𝗧𝗥𝗔𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡
🧡Early Bird Single (until Sept 8): €77
🧡Single: €88
🧡Early Bird Duo (at least 1 femme-bodied participant): €122
🧡Duo (at least 1 femme-bodied participant): €133
🧡Low Income Sister ticket (femme-bodied participant): €66
If we don't know each other personally, please send us a message 𝗕𝗘𝗙𝗢𝗥𝗘 booking your ticket
Julia: +351 920 540 231
👉 You don’t have to be a couple or arrive together to purchase a duo ticket.
👉 To ensure the safety of the space, we’ll have a short chat with you before confirming your application
👉 Spaces are limited, we encourage you to register early
👉 Refund policy: Tickets can only be transferred if you find someone to take your spot, and they successfully complete the application process.

𝗦𝗖𝗛𝗘𝗗𝗨𝗟𝗘
🌸 15:30 – Doors Open
🌸 16:00 – Doors Close, Facilitation Begins (please arrive on time, no entry after 16:00)
🌸 18:00 – Open Play Begins
🌸 21:30 – Closing & Sharing Circle
🌸 22:00 – Clean-up (you’re welcome to stay and help!)

𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗧𝗢 𝗕𝗥𝗜𝗡𝗚
💛A reusable water bottle
💛A vegetarian potluck dish or snacks to share\
💛A towel or sarong
💛Clothing that makes you feel comfortable and sexy (you’re welcome to bring multiple outfits and change throughout the evening)
💛Optional: toys, feathers, blindfolds, etc

𝗔𝗕𝗢𝗨𝗧 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗙𝗔𝗖𝗜𝗟𝗜𝗧𝗔𝗧𝗢𝗥𝗦
This temple is co-created by Dassana Bambi and Julia.

👩🏻‍🦱 𝗣𝗔𝗦𝗦𝗜𝗢𝗡 𝗢𝗙 𝗟𝗜𝗙𝗘 / 𝗗𝗮𝘀𝘀𝗮𝗻𝗮 𝗕𝗮𝗺𝗯𝗶
With over 24 years of experience in spirituality, mindfulness, tantra, shamanism, meditation, and bodywork (including massage and dearmouring), as well as 16 Burning Man events, Dassana offers unique, creative, playful, and heart-centered workshops, events, and private sessions. She has also organized four small-scale festivals dedicated to healing, intimacy, and passion, and shares her work in Holland, Sweden, and Turkey.
Dassana has an ability to see deeply into people, helping them connect the pieces of their lives while supporting them in expanding their consciousness, awareness, and healing potential. Through the alignment of body, soul, and mind, she guides individuals toward a freer, happier, and more joyful life—one that feels deeply connected to existence itself and into the heart energy.
https://www.tantrabambi.com

👩‍🦰 𝗝𝗨𝗟𝗜𝗔
Hi, I’m Julia 🌿 My biggest passion is holding spaces where people feel safe, welcome, and free to be themselves. I love helping others feel seen and accepted just as they are.
I’ve been walking the tantric path for a few years and have held space in tantra workshops, retreats, and cuddle puddles. I’m also a yoga teacher, contact improvisation facilitator and trained in Authentic Relating. Right now, I’m studying towards a degree in psychology, as I want to deepen my understanding of human nature and how we can heal and grow together.
I live a nomadic life between Koh Phangan and Portugal, and I’m really excited to bring my magic to Amsterdam ✨
Insta: https://www.instagram.com/julia_connection/
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/julia_connection
If we don't know each other personally, please send us a message 𝗕𝗘𝗙𝗢𝗥𝗘 booking your ticket
Julia: +351 920 540 231
We can't wait to share this beautiful journey with you.
𝗔𝗽𝗽𝗹𝘆 𝘁𝗼𝗱𝗮𝘆 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗲𝗰𝘂𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘀𝗽𝗮𝗰𝗲!