Pickup Play Spooky Mixer by Kandy

Name: Pickup Play Spooky Mixer by Kandy
Start: 2025-10-21T18:30:00-07:00
Location: Sanctuary Club

Schedule

Tue, 21 Oct, 2025 at 06:30 pm

UTC-07:00

Location

Sanctuary Club | Portland, OR

If you're looking for an exciting way to explore your desires and connect with like-minded individuals, come join us at our upcoming PickUp Play Mixer by Kandy!
It’s the kinkiest spookiest month of the year! Therefore This month’s event will be Halloween Themed! Featuring special games, decorations, and a raffle! Dressing in costume gets you a free raffle ticket entry, and an opportunity to win a prize in one of 3 different categories! Categories TBA! RSVP to the Fetlife event for future updates!!
Doors open at 630!
First visit the lanyard station!
Pick out a color coded lanyard to show others your Comfort level:
Green(GO!)- Ready to Negotiate
Yellow(Proceed w/ Caution) - Unsure of what I’m looking for
Red(STOP)- Let Me make the first move
Pick out a Role tag and hang it on your lanyard:
Pink- Top
Orange- Bottom
Blue- Switch
Starting at 730pm you'll be separated into groups of 6-8 and given discussion prompts, ranging from fun and kinky, to somewhat personal. With each new prompt you’ll be assigned a new group, allowing you to meet new people and spark connections in a fun and relaxed setting. After an hour of mixing, it's dungeon time! This is a fantastic opportunity to dive into spontaneous scenes, where you can unleash your creativity and experience the thrill of the moment. Whether you're a seasoned kinkster or just curious to learn more, you'll find a welcoming community eager to share and engage in new experiences. Don’t miss out on the chance to indulge in the playful side of kink!
Would you like a chance to stand out from the crowd? Are you able to act as a leader to keep others on task? Volunteer to be an Anchor Human! You’ll be the leader of your assigned group, and be able to show off your extroverted prowess! (Unfortunately I am unable to offer discounted entry for Anchor humans)
Sign up here!
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1-yFY_aNS1ocl5-tOxRKkmAzzd2--iy_S7pEGmsDSK8k/edit?usp=drivesdk
Door Fee for Mixer: $20 cash, $22 Card. This includes free admission to the Dungeon hours that start at 8.
The group discussions start promptly at 730. If you arrive late you can always jump in! And if you do not wish to participate in the discussions, you are welcome to join us for dungeon time that starts at 830pm.
Dress code: Put in effort! Dress to impress! If you are not intentional with your wardrobe you might be turned away. Hoodies/ sweatpants/ work clothes/solid color T shirts Ect should all be avoided.
Per Sanctuary Rules:
There are no knives, guns, urine, scat, blood, fire, wax, race, or breath play allowed.
Be kind to other beings. Respect each other and people’s personal space. If someone says no to play, do NOT ask them again.
Please listen to and respect your Host/Dungeon Monitors.
There are no cell phones or photography allowed within the dungeon. Please exit to the stairwell to use your phone
Event specific rules:
RESPECT THE LANYARDS! -Attendees wearing Red lanyards should not be solicited under any circumstances. If they want to engage with you, it is their responsibility to initiate.
-If you choose a Green lanyard you are consenting to others approaching you and asking immediately to negotiate a scene. You may also be asked to engage in casual sexual encounters, or group sex. If you are not comfortable being approached in this way, or have difficulty setting firm boundaries, please select a Yellow or Red lanyard.
-No is a complete sentence regardless of what lanyard color attendees are wearing. If anyone says no, in any way shape or form, disengage the interaction, and move on. Anything other than an enthusiastic yes is a no. Do not approach this individual again for the rest of the evening. Breaking this rule could lead to you being asked to leave with no refund of your door fee.
-Do not pressure any attendee to share more than they are comfortable sharing. Discussion prompts are suggestions ONLY! If the discussion prompt makes you uncomfortable feel free to pick a topic at random when it is your turn to speak.
Sanctuary is a 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racist establishment that celebrates diversity. Leave any bigotry at the door.
General disclaimer: This is a public event. Attendees have not been vetted in any way. Play at your own risk. I suggest completing a negotiation worksheet (copies will be provided) before engaging in play with any new connections.
Note: If you have mobility issues that stop you from standing or walking across a large room multiple times in an hour, please let us know when you check in! I have accommodations available to make this event accessible to everyone!