Non-monogamous Speed Dating and Mingling - San Antonio, TX

Hosted by ENM Matchmaker Victoria and her husband Ryan with Birds of a Feather Matchmaking, we invite you to a unique evening of connection designed for individuals and couples interested in ethical non-monogamy. This semi-exclusive event provides a safe, welcoming space for singles, solos, and couples to meet like-minded individuals.

Co-hosted by local Deseere with Deseere Cruz Coaching, she is a Transformational Dating and Relationship Coach who helps her clients overcome their challenges with dating and cultivates deep, lasting relationships. Visit and connect with her here using this Facebook link. 

We welcome all self-identified women and men, ensuring a diverse and inclusive atmosphere. Our event is perfect for those exploring consensual, non-monogamous relationships, whether you're new to ethical non-monogamy or an experienced practitioner.

Enjoy an exciting evening where you can connect with potential partners and friends who share your values and relationship preferences. We strive to create a fun, respectful environment that fosters meaningful connections.

— We recognize that our events have traditionally used binary gender terms. We acknowledge this may not be welcoming to all members of our community, including our trans and non-binary friends. We are committed to improving our inclusivity and are actively working on creating more inclusive events in the future. For this particular event, we have chosen to maintain its traditional format. We value all members of the LGBTQ+ community and are open to your input on how we can make our future events more welcoming and inclusive for everyone. If you'd like to share your thoughts or expertise on this matter, please contact Victoria.

Event Details:

• Open to all sexualities and relationship styles within the ethical non-monogamy spectrum. Our attendees primarily identify as heterosexual or bisexual.
• Structured speed dating format to maximize meaningful connections
• Relaxed atmosphere for open and honest conversations
• Experienced facilitators to guide the process and ensure comfort for all participants

Who This Event is For (in no particular order):

• Swingers
• Singles/Solos
• Open Relationships
• Polyamorous Folks
• Monogamish Couples
• Kinksters
• New to Non-monogamy
• Relationship Anarchists
• Curious and Experienced Non-monogamists

What to Expect:

• When you first arrive, you are checked in by one of the hosts
• You fill out a name tag and are given a clipboard with a tracker sheet
• Brief introduction and explanation of the event format
• Multiple short, engaging conversations with potential matches
• The tracker sheet is given back to the hosts after the speed-dating portion
• Opportunity for open mingling after the structured portion
• A supportive space to discuss your relationship goals and boundaries
• After the event, the host sends out a follow-up email, aligns the tracker sheets to see who matched with whom. When there is a mutual match, the host mutually exchanges contact information when there is a couple-to-couple match, or the host gives the contact information to the woman to reach out (unless she specifies otherwise), and then you grow your connection from there! 

Our goal is to create a judgment-free zone where you can explore connections that align with your personal values and desires in ethical non-monogamy.

Whether you're seeking romantic partners, platonic connections, or simply want to expand your non-monogamous social circle, this speed dating event offers a unique chance to meet others who share your relationship philosophy.

Join us for an evening of new encounters, stimulating conversations, and the potential to forge meaningful connections in the world of ethical non-monogamy!

Tickets are $45 same-day at-the-door.

(1) Drink ticket available with purchase (alcoholic or non-alcoholic options available)

Dress to Impress! You’re going on a lot of first dates, so dress accordingly.

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Disclaimer: Pictures and videos will be taken at the event for future promotional purposes. Please inform the host if you want to be excluded from this content.

Tickets are non-refundable and non-transferable. No exceptions.

Host or Publisher Birds of a Feather Matchmaking