Mingle Mayhem 40+ Big Singles Bash
About this Event
We cracked the code on how to make dating not suck.
Our Big Singles Bash has become one of Boston’s favorite ways to meet someone off the apps and we’re finally bringing the series to the 40+ crowd! Same smart design, same playful structured chaos, same “social experiment disguised as a party” energy.
On July 22, we’re taking over the upstairs at Bow Market for a one-night-only Big Singles Bash: 40+ Edition, with 100 smart, warm, emotionally available singles from around Boston.
This isn’t speed dating or another awkward mixer. It’s a social experiment disguised as a party: psychology-backed, built by scientists and matchmakers, and designed around what actually helps people connect beyond a profile or a canned first-date conversation.
You’ll move through a series of flirty, fast-paced games and curated conversations designed to help you get past the usual script. Meet people outside your routine, challenge your “type,” and have conversations with someone you might not have crossed paths with otherwise. This event structure draws in open minded, interesting, and emotially available people - all by design!
You’ll get to talk to a lot of people, but nothing is forced. Every activity is optional and designed to give you an easy way in, not put you on the spot. Whether you’re an overthinker, a slow burner, newly single, or simply tired of the apps, you’ll have a place here.
82% of past attendees said they made a connection they wanted to follow up on.
“I felt more chemistry here in 90 minutes than I have on 90 apps.”
— probably someone’s soulmate
Themed cocktails from The Bar at Nook will keep things loose, and we’ll guide you through the night from start to finish. When you do meet someone you click with, our signature calling-card system lets you safely exchange information only if you both want to. No pressure. No awkward ask. Just connection, on your terms.
Afterward, linger in Bow Market’s cozy corners, grab a drink, and see where the night takes you.
Our last 10 events sold out in advance. This one will too.
Come solo. Bring your single friends. Just don’t wait.
Where is it happening?
Event Location & Nearby Stays:
USD 28.52 to USD 33.85
