Matchmaking & Social Events in San Jose

SpeedSanJose Dating offers a modern approach to matchmaking in San Jose — combining curated personal introductions with ongoing social events designed for real connection.

We don’t rely on anonymous databases or profiles pulled from dating apps. Instead, we meet singles in real life through our hosted events across the city, allowing us to introduce people from an active, familiar community — individuals who show up, engage, and are genuinely interested in meeting others offline.

The result is matchmaking that feels intentional without being overwhelming, and social without being chaotic.

Our matchmaking experience blends one-to-one introductions with access to SpeedSanJose Dating’s social events.

Each matchmaking package includes:

• Personal introductions arranged by our team
• A private conversation to understand your preferences, goals, and dating style
• Coordination of introductions at partner venues or locations you choose
• Complimentary access to SpeedSanJose Dating events during your package

Introductions are made based on compatibility, availability, and mutual interest. Timing varies, and matches are not guaranteed.

A relaxed introduction to matchmaking.

Includes:

• Two thoughtfully arranged introductions
• Personal consultation with our team
• Date coordination handled by us
• Access to SpeedSanJose Dating events

A deeper, more intentional matchmaking experience.

Includes:

• Four curated introductions
• Ongoing refinement of preferences
• Coordinated introductions at partner venues or your preferred spot
• Access to our “This, That & The Other” concierge
• Access to SpeedSanJose Dating events

Our most personalized matchmaking experience.

Includes:

• Six carefully arranged introductions
• Highly personalized matching
• Custom arrangements at venues you love
• Full concierge support
• Access to SpeedSanJose Dating events

SpeedSanJose Dating events are designed to feel welcoming, social, and low-pressure. Many matchmaking clients enjoy attending events alongside their introductions — it’s a natural way to meet people, build comfort, and give both daters and matchmakers a clearer sense of chemistry.

What information is shared before an introduction?
Only the essentials: the venue, date, time, and your match’s first name. Contact details are shared only if both parties choose to continue afterward.

Where do SpeedSanJose Dating introductions come from?
Introductions are made from our active San Jose community — people we meet in real life through SpeedSanJose Dating social events and participants in our matchmaking program. We do not recruit from dating apps, classifieds, gyms, or cold outreach.

How do I share my preferences?
After selecting a matchmaking package, you’ll have a personal conversation with our team to discuss what you’re looking for — including lifestyle, interests, and overall vibe.

Do I have to go to a venue chosen by SpeedSanJose Dating?
Not at all. You’re welcome to suggest a venue you enjoy. We’re happy to coordinate introductions at partner venues or locations you prefer.

Is there a time limit on using my introductions?
No. Your introductions may be used at your own pace, based on availability and mutual interest.

Choose the matchmaking package that feels right for you, and let us handle the introductions.

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