MARRIAGE BOOT CAMP
Schedule
Sun, 23 Nov, 2025 at 04:00 am
UTC+01:00Location
Wuse II, Abuja | Abuja, FC
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THINGS LOVERS MUST DO TO BUILD A LASTING RELATIONSHIP 📍Great relationships are not built by one-sided effort. They thrive when both partners commit to loving, honoring, and growing together. It’s not about who’s right — it’s about what’s right for the relationship.
As a Marriage & Family Therapist, I’ve learned that mutual responsibility is the secret behind lasting love.
Whether you're dating, engaged, or married — these 25 things are foundational to a healthy, fulfilling relationship:
💞 1. Respect One Another
Respect is the air love breathes. Speak kindly. Honor each other’s opinions, boundaries, and bodies. Without respect, love suffocates.
🫂 2. Listen Actively
Don't just hear — listen to understand, not to respond. Silence your phone, maintain eye contact, and give your full attention.
❤️ 3. Appreciate One Another Daily
Say "thank you." Celebrate the little things. Express gratitude for the meals, help, support, sacrifices, and presence.
🙏 4. Pray Together and For Each Other
A couple that prays together stays spiritually connected. Make prayer a daily habit. Intercede for each other’s dreams, health, and peace.
🕊️ 5. Practice Forgiveness Quickly
Offenses will come. Don’t keep records of wrongs. Say “I’m sorry” and mean it. Say “I forgive you” and prove it.
💬 6. Communicate Honestly and Regularly
Open, transparent, and consistent communication prevents assumptions. Talk about your feelings, goals, finances, and fears.
🎯 7. Support Each Other’s Dreams
Be their biggest fan, not their biggest critic. Stand with your partner in pursuit of purpose. Push them forward when they doubt themselves.
🏡 8. Build Together — Not Separately
Have shared goals. Save, invest, and plan your future as a team. Marriage is “WE,” not “me versus you.”
😌 9. Create a Safe Emotional Space
Let your partner feel safe to be vulnerable, weak, or broken around you. Don’t mock their fears or w€aponize their insecurities.
💃🕺 10. Spend Quality Time Together
Time is love. Date each other continuously. Talk. Laugh. Play. Walk. Be present — physically and emotionally.
🎁 11. Express Love in Each Other’s Love Language
Learn what makes your partner feel loved — whether it’s words, service, gifts, time, or touch — and give it intentionally.
🤝 12. Share Responsibilities
Whether it's cooking, cleaning, parenting, or decision-making, share the load. Partnership means teamwork, not one person carrying everything.
🛑 13. Set Boundaries With Others
Protect your relationship from in-laws, exes, friends, or outsiders who may cross the line. Loyalty starts with prioritization.
🔒 14. Be Faithful in Mind, Words, and Actions
Faithfulness isn’t just s-exual. Be loyal with your words, your thoughts, your conversations, and your phone.
✨ 15. Speak Life Into Each Other
Be a source of hope, not despair. Uplift your partner with positive words, encouragement, and spiritual affirmations.
🩺 16. Care for Each Other’s Health
Encourage regular checkups, healthy meals, exercise, and rest. Remind them that you want them around for a long time.
🧠 17. Grow Together Intellectually
Read books, take courses, and discuss new ideas. A couple that grows together becomes a powerhouse.
🫶 18. Show Consistent Affection
Touch. Hug. Kiss. Hold hands. Flirt. Affection keeps emotional closeness alive — don’t let it fade with time.
💡 19. Admit When You’re Wrong
Pride ki-lls relationships. Humility heals them. Learn to say, “I was wrong. I hurt you. Please forgive me.”
👀 20. Be Transparent With Finances
No secrets. Discuss earnings, expenses, debts, and dreams. Financial unity is a pillar of marital peace.
🧎♀️ 21. Serve One Another in Love
Love is service. Make your partner’s life easier — not harder. Bring them water. Run errands. Help them rest.
💑 22. Be Each Other’s Safe Place
Let your partner feel like home — not a battleground. Your presence should be a refuge from life’s storms.
⏳ 23. Be Patient With Each Other’s Growth
No one is perfect. Give your partner space to grow, heal, and improve without condemnation.
🛠️ 24. Work Through Conflict Peacefully
Avoid yelling, insults, and manipulation. Learn conflict resolution. Choose peace over pride.
💍 25. Never Stop Choosing Each Other
Love is a daily decision. Keep choosing your partner — even when it’s hard, inconvenient, or uncomfortable.
💡 Remember, love alone is not enough. Commitment, maturity, effort, and sacrifice make relationships thrive. Great couples don’t just happen — they are built daily with mutual intentionality.
🔁 SHARE this with couples, singles preparing for marriage, and anyone who desires a thriving relationship. Let’s build homes, not heartbreaks.
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