Let’s Talk About the Sh*t We’re Pretending Is Fine

Schedule

Wed, 04 Feb, 2026 at 06:00 pm

UTC-08:00

Location

Keller Williams Seattle Metro West | Seattle, WA

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Let’s dive deep into the unfiltered truth of our lives and have some real talk together. This gathering is for people who identify as women
✨ There’s a version of “fine” most of us have perfected.
The version where we:
keep things moving
keep it light
don’t complain
don’t rock the boat
and definitely don’t say the thing that might make the room uncomfortable
This night is about dropping that.
💬 What this gathering is really about
We’re coming together to talk about the things that are easier to ignore.
The thoughts and feelings many of us carry quietly.
The conversations we usually save for close friends, late nights, or podcasts we listen to alone — wishing there were more spaces to talk about them out loud, together.
This is for anyone craving:
Realness over polish
Honesty over small talk
Connection that goes deeper than
“How are you?” → “I’m fine.”
🤍 This night is for you if you’re looking to:
Build community that actually feels like community
Form deeper, more honest friendships
Sit in spaces where vulnerability is welcomed — and nothing needs to be fixed
No performing.
No pretending.
Just a room full of women telling the truth — and realizing how powerful (and relieving) it is to do it together.
🌿 About The Commwell
The Commwell is a monthly gathering where women come together for the conversations we usually only have one-on-one with close friends — the ones that feel too messy, too honest, or too complicated for casual small talk.
These gatherings feel more like a living room than a stage.
🕯 What to expect
✨ Arrive & mingle
Food, drinks, and time to connect with each other and aligned brands
🎙 Recorded live conversation
A living-room-style, unscripted discussion with thoughtful voices who aren’t here to perform or preach — just to be real
🫶 Small-group connection
We’ll break into intimate groups so everyone has space to speak, listen, and be heard
No fixing.
No silver linings.
No pressure to share more than you want to.
Just honest conversation — and the reminder that you’re not alone.
🎥 Recording notice
Disclaimer:
This event will be recorded for audio and video. By attending, you consent to the potential use of your image or voice in promotional content.
👉 Small-group discussions are not recorded.
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Keller Williams Seattle Metro West, 5446 California Ave SW, Seattle, WA 98136-1513, United States

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