KELLY FOSTER LUNDQUIST W/ LISA KROGER: BEARD
Schedule
Mon, 03 Nov, 2025 at 06:00 pm
UTC-06:00Location
387 Perkins Ext, Memphis, TN, United States, Tennessee 38117 | Memphis, TN
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Join us as we welcome KELLY FOSTER LUNDQUIST in conversation with LISA KROGER on MONDAY, NOVEMBER 3 at 6:00 PM to celebrate the release of her new book BEARD: A MEMOIR OF MARRIAGE.ABOUT THE BOOK:
"When I tell this story as a joke, I am its punchline. Leaning in close, I might start with this bit: The night before my first husband got outed to me, I was in Chicago's Boystown neighborhood dressed up as Liza Minnelli for Halloween. "
Kelly Foster Lundquist was nineteen when she met Devin at church camp in the late '90s. Immediately inseparable, the two bonded over bootleg Tori Amos recordings and a sense of disconnection from the spiritual fervor of their fellow camp counselors. Devin was classically handsome and Kelly on the plain side of pretty, but they matched. Their twinned search for God, acceptance, and love would profoundly shape the rest of their lives.
In this striking debut memoir, Lundquist revisits her relationship with Devin twenty years after their divorce, as she investigates the "beard" trope in literature, culture, and her own romantic life. The straight woman who unwittingly marries a gay man is either a laughingstock or a fool--or both--in the popular imagination. And yet reality--much like desire--is more wild. Reality is midnight pad Thai, tenderness in Ralph Lauren sheets, ritual visits to Blockbuster, and beginning a PhD in queer theory while your husband secretly struggles to reconcile his double life.
A tour de force of empathy and vivid prose, Beard reckons honestly with the harm done to both husband and wife by churches that required rigid performances of gender and sexuality. In contrast, Lundquist learns to let go of brittle certainties as she embraces what her first marriage taught her about risk and redemption.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Kelly Foster Lundquist teaches writing at North Hennepin Community College in Brooklyn Park, MN. Originally from Mississippi, Lundquist has taught writing all over the United States. Her nonfiction and poetry can be seen in many places, including Villain Era Lit, Last Syllable Lit, Whale Road Review, and Image Journal. Her work has been nominated for a 2024 Best of the Net Award as well as a Pushcart Prize. She is the recipient of grants from the Minnesota State Arts Board as well as the Central Minnesota Arts Board. Her book Beard: A Memoir of a Marriage (Eerdmans) will debut in October 2025. She lives in a little red house by the Mississippi River with her spouse, daughter, and dog.
ABOUT THE CONVERSATION PARTNER:
Lisa Kröger is author of Monster, She Wrote, Toil and Trouble, and the forthcoming There’s Something in the Water, as well as the co-host of Know Fear and Monster, She Wrote podcasts. Her work has won the Stoker and the Locus awards for nonfiction, and a Rondo for Best Short Film. Lisa also works with Nyx Horror Collective, creating women-led genre content, which has streamed on Shudder.
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Where is it happening?
387 Perkins Ext, Memphis, TN, United States, Tennessee 38117Event Location & Nearby Stays:
