In-Person: Make a Man Your Slave In & Out of the Bedroom

For the new Domme just starting out, often the hardest things to do are not the technical skills; the w hipping, the tying, the t orture. It's the scene construction; How to start, what to say and do and how to finish the session. This class will demonstrate, from beginning to end, how to do a Femdom scene!

In this class, you will learn:

SAFETY DISCUSSION:

1. DOMMES: Negotiating your scene while maintaining the upper hand. Scene activities negotiation: Sub, F etishist, M asochist
   b. Medical Disclosures
   c. Safe Words & Systems
   d. What is and isn’t a healthy Femdom Dynamic
2. SUBS:

a. Where to meet quality Dommes
b. How to tell if They are safe to play with
c. Protocol, Dialogue and Honorifics: How to stand out when approaching a Domme in public, private, virtual or IRL
d. Slave positions: Why you should learn them and why they are good for you.

READY TO PLAY? SCENE STRUCTURE (DOMMES)

1. Laying down the law: How to set structure and tone
2. Exerting your ownershipa. The 4 phases of your d ungeon
   b. Creating e rotic suspense using your voice, touch and environment
3. Behavior Modification in Theory: Take small bites!. Slave / Gorean positioning
   b. Collaring & naming rituals
   c. Restraints
4. Behavior Modification in Practice: Carrots and Sticks (Psssst - the carrots are more important!). Tease and Denial and other Female pleasure based rewards
   b. The Foot: Starting at the bottom and working your way up
   c. P unishment should fit the crime - choosing the most delicious and effective corrections
5. Closing the Circle: How to end your scene. To c um or not to c um? Should he leave with blue balls? Put your pleasure FIRST.
   b. Never waste an o rgasm: (Dopamine Cycles) Learn how to use his o rgasm (or the denial of it) to make him addicted by redirecting his attention to what makes you uniquely YOU!
   c. Boundaries: When the scene is over, it’s over. Letting go ( you don’t actually own him. Well, not yet, at least! ;))
6. PRACTICE TIME! If you have a partner GREAT! If not, grab yourself a B ondage Buddy©️ and try out your new skills under the strict supervision of Head Mistress Tara, surrounded by your peers in a safe space! You’ll need an impact play toy, leash & collar and some guts if you choose to participate. You’re also welcome to hang back and watch if you’re shy, but We strongly encourage supervised practice for the best learning retention.

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