How to Talk to Women without the anxiety spiral (In Person Event San Jose)

You’ve seen her.
The woman at the café.
The one at Whole Foods, at the gym, at the event where you told yourself, “Next time I’ll say something.”

And then... you froze.

Your brain short-circuited.
Your mouth went dry.
You walked away, replaying it in your head later..... torturing yourself with all the what-ifs.

If you’ve ever wished you could just walk up, say something normal, and actually enjoy it, this workshop is for you.

This live, in-person workshop is for men who are tired of missing opportunities with women because of nerves, anxiety, or overthinking.

Men who are smart, capable, and successful yet fall apart the second they feel attraction.

Confidence doesn’t come from memorizing clever lines.
It comes from rewiring the threat response that makes your body panic when you see a beautiful woman.

You don’t need “game.”
You need real-world practice guided by someone who’s coached hundreds of Silicon Valley men to go from anxious and tongue-tied to calm, grounded, and in control.

In this 2-hour live, interactive workshop, you’ll discover:
✅ Why your brain freezes (and how to stop it in seconds)
✅ How to talk to women naturally (by actually practicing it) without fake routines or forced confidence
✅ How to reframe rejection so it loses all its power
✅ The 3-step “Approach Flow” used by Julia’s clients to start effortless conversations anywhere, anytime

Julia isn’t your average “dating coach.”

She’s the Bay Area’s leading wingwoman for analytical, high-performing men who’ve mastered their careers but struggle in dating. Her workshops combine behavioral psychology, social calibration, and in-field practice that gets real results.

Her clients don’t rehearse imaginary conversations. They rehearse with real women, in real time.
And that’s why they stop overthinking.

“I used to panic just making eye contact. Now I can start a conversation anywhere. Julia’s approach flipped a switch I didn’t know existed.”
— Kevin, 32, Software Engineer, Mountain View

This isn’t a lecture, it’s a hands-on, interactive experience where you’ll practice real scenarios with expert feedback.

You’ll walk away knowing exactly what to say and how to stay grounded when you see someone you’re attracted to.

Whether you’re just starting out or rebuilding confidence after years of hesitation, this experience will change the way you show up around women forever.

📍 Location: 1631 N 1st St #200, San Jose, CA 95112
🗓 Date: Saturday December 20th
⏰ Time: 3:00 PM – 5:00 PM
🎟 Limited to 15 participants for personalized coaching and practice

The difference between the man who meets the woman
and the man who watches her walk away - is one thing: action.

Take yours now.

🎟 Click “Get Tickets” and start talking to her without freezing.

For questions, text (408) 645-0597 or email

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Host or Publisher Silicon Valley's Dating and Relationship Coach, Julia Malakiman