Holding Grief at CNY

The Lunar New Year is a time of reunion and bright red joy. Yet for many, the festivities can cast a sharper shadow, highlighting who or what is no longer at the table. Whether you are grieving a deceased loved one, mourning a past version of yourself, a relationship that has ended, or dreams that have shifted with the years, come join us for a warm, intentional evening where we make gentle space for all that you hold, within the rhythm of tradition.

We will move through a simple, flowing journey together:

• A Welcoming Tea Ceremony to arrive and anchor ourselves.
• Reflective Exercise with prompts inspired by CNY symbolism (like the unwritten angbao blessing or the act of emotional spring cleaning).
• Gentle Rituals of Release & Continuity, using elements of water and the enduring symbol of the red thread, to let go of burdens and consciously carry forward what matters.
• Quiet Camaraderie and light snacks in a supportive community.

• The phrase "happy new year" feels complex this season.
• You want to honour your grief with people who understand.
• You seek a ritual way to acknowledge an ending as a new cycle begins.
• You believe tradition can hold both joy and sorrow.

• A sense of peace and permission for your experience.
• A personal "red thread" talisman of connection.
• Gentle, practical ways to navigate the festive season.

Xinran & Priscilla are death doulas and the co-creators of Between Worlds. They are dedicated to creating compassionate spaces where grief and tradition can be held with equal honour. For more information about what we do, follow us on Insta @betweenworlds_sg

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