HMU Academy: Mean Toys, Fine Touch

Schedule

Mon Oct 05 2026 at 07:00 pm to 09:00 pm

UTC-04:00
Location

120 Walker St floor 6 | New York, NY

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Learn how finesse can turn canes, whips, and chains from pain-focused toys into versatile tools for sensation and play.
About this Event

This Hit Me Up event is open to the public, 21+.


About the Class

Canes, whips, chains... some toys have a reputation before they ever touch the body. But intimidating doesn’t have to mean overwhelming.
Mean Toys, Fine Touch is an exploration of the skill, control, and finesse behind some of kink’s scarier-looking implements. We’ll break down how different tools move, feel, and communicate sensation, and explore how changes in rhythm, placement, intensity, and technique can transform the same toy from teasing to thrilling to deliciously mean.
Designed to make intimidating toys feel more approachable, this class focuses on developing control rather than simply hitting harder. Whether you’re curious about picking up a scary toy for the first time or want more nuance in how you already play, come discover how much range can live inside something seemingly wicked.



FAQs

FAQ: what should I bring?

Any scary toys you would like practice with

FAQ: any skill pre-requisites? (i.e., is this for beginners, advanced, everyone?)

This class is suitable for all levels

FAQ: what should I wear?

Come as you are

FAQ: can I attend solo, or do I need to come with a partner?

Solo is fine



About Your Instructor

Mx. Fox is a femme domme, k!nk educator, and relationship & intimacy coach with nearly a decade of experience practicing and teaching in the NYC scene. Their work focuses on helping people of all experience levels build confidence, express themselves shamelessly, and create hotter, safer, and more connected play and relationships.



Price Transparency

The full fee reflects the true costs of running the event, including supplies and compensating facilitators for their labor. If you are able to afford a full price ticket without experiencing financial hardship, please choose this option. For those who identify as BIPOC, and/or those who cannot afford a full fee ticket are welcome to use our discount code EQUITY26 at checkout.




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Where is it happening?

120 Walker St floor 6, 120 Walker Street, New York, United States

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Tickets

USD 49.77

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