Gender Upheaval Party

🎉 Say Goodbye to Gender Reveals — It’s Time for a Gender Upheaval! 🎉

Hosted by the outrageous Vin Seaman / LOL McFiercen and featuring beats from DJ phishr_price, this isn’t your typical party—it’s a full-blown GENDER REVOLT! 🌀

No more balloons, smoke cannons, or pastel confetti mishaps. We’ve burned the blue and pink rulebook and replaced it with fierce performances, radical joy, and unapologetic gender expression!

With show-stopping acts from:

✨ Libra Longlegs
✨ Mama Celeste
✨ phishr_price
✨ Weyam Al-Ghadban
✨ Queer Dance Freakout (Chicago)
✨ PLEEAY

🤩 Bonus: Strut your stuff on our participatory RAINBOW RUNWAY, where you can make your grand nonbinary “coming out” debut—because the only reveal we care about is the one that’s true to you!

It’s time to ditch the binaries and party like gender is an infinite playground. Come for the art, stay for the revolution. Let’s blow the lid off gender expectations—one glitter bomb at a time! 🌈💣

Accessibility Information: Oasis’ main space is wheelchair accessible with three stairs to access the bar. The space has single-stall all-gender restrooms with two ADA accessible restrooms. All videos will have open captions and ASL interpretation will be provided for this event if requested by ticket buyers at least 72 hours prior to the performance. Host will announce content/trigger warnings before videos and performances.

To access a map of existing blue accessible parking zones in San Francisco, please visit: https://www.sfmta.com/maps/existing-blue-accessible-parking-zones.

If you have questions or would like to contact someone to ensure we can meet your accessibility needs, please email [email protected].

COVID Information: Masking STRONGLY encouraged! Participating artists and staff are COVID tested before the event. KN95 masks provided at the door.

About THEYFRIEND: Now in its fourth year, THEYFRIEND is the world’s first performance festival uplifting, centering, and celebrating nonbinary identity! For more information on THEYFRIEND events happening November 13–17, 2023, visit www.diamond-wave.org/theyfriend.

This event is supported by the Borealis Philanthropy, the California Arts Council, and the Zellerbach Family Foundation, and is presented in partnership with Oasis and the Leather & LGBTQ Cultural District. Diamond Wave is a fiscally sponsored project of Intersection for the Arts that is supported by Grants for the Arts, the Horizons Foundation, and the San Francisco Foundation.

Host or Publisher Diamond Wave