Gay Speed Dating (Ages 45-65)

We sold out last event with 50 matches, join us and meet like-minded guys 45-65 in a fun, low-pressure speed dating event.
About this Event

Our inaugural event sold out and the results spoke for themselves!

50 total connections made
12 romantic matches 💛 !
38 platonic matches 💜 !

Now we are back for round two, this time for gay and queer men ages 45 to 65.

Physical attraction on a dating app does not compare to hearing someone's laugh, noticing the energy they bring into a room, or having a real conversation about compatibility. Gay Speed Dating San Diego is built around giving gay men the space to create organic chemistry. No headless torsos, no egos behind keyboards, and no algorithm telling you who you should like.

You will have three ways to meet other guys while enjoying delicious artisanal wines at the beautiful Négociant Winery in Hillcrest.

3 Ways to Meet People

1. Ice Breakers - Organized group activities to warm up the room and get everyone talking.
2. Mini-Dates - 10 one-on-one conversations, just long enough to feel a spark.
3. Open Social - Free mixing at the end of the night. Find your matches and keep it going.

You choose your matches after the mini-dates and we share them only when it is mutual. If you do not get a match, do not sweat it. There is plenty of time to get to know the other guys during the open social.

How the Night Works

6:30 PM: Check-in & Open Mingling
Grab a drink, settle in, and meet the guys.
7:00 PM: Introductions & Ice Breakers
We will kick things off together as a group to warm up our social skills.
7:30 PM: Mini-Date Rounds
Rotate through 8 mini-dates, each just long enough to know if there is a spark.
8:30 PM: Open Social
Rounds are done. Grab a glass, find your matches, and keep the night going.
9:30 PM: Closing
Say goodnight and go home... or don't 😏

Tickets

Early Bird - $25 Through July 22

General Admission - $30 July 23 to July 28

At the Door - $35 July 29

Good to Know

🗓 Tuesday, July 29 · 6:30 to 9:30 PM
📍 Négociant Winery, Hillcrest, San Diego
📱 Phones required for participation
🍷 Wine available for purchase
🎟 Capped at 40 attendees, this event will sell out!
✅ Gay and queer men ages 45 to 65