Ex's and No's: Building a Life You Love Post Heartbreak

A live night where I teach the thing the whole book is built on, take your real questions, and feed you. You leave with a free copy!
About this Event

Join Us for Ex's and No's!

You're not stuck because you're broken. You're stuck because nobody ever showed you the operating system running underneath all of your relationship choices: your attachment style. It's the reason you keep picking the same person, with the same patterns. It's the reason "no" feels like rejection instead of redirection. And it's the reason this breakup feels impossible to get past.

I wrote Ex's and No's to hand you that operating system. But honestly, I'd rather discuss it face-to-face than mail you a book and hope it lands.

So here's the night:

First, I'll share about the four attachment styles, how yours got wired, and how that wiring has been steering your love life. Then we go past the breakup part, because surviving heartbreak isn't the goal. The goal is building a life you're genuinely excited to wake up to, with or without anyone else in it. I'll walk you through how those two things connect, the same way I do with my private clients.

Then I shut up and you talk. Open Q&A. Bring the messy stuff — the ex you can't stop checking on, the pattern you swear you'll break this time... That's the part you can't get from reading alone, and it's my favorite part of the night.

And then we celebrate. You leave with your own copy of the book. There's food. And you're in a room with 30 people who are doing the exact same work you are — which, trust me, is much different and better than doing it alone.

I'm capping it at 30 on purpose. This only works because it's small.

If you're tired of just getting through it and you actually want to build something better, come.