Eargasm: Maximizing Musical Pleasure

Schedule

Tue Oct 07 2025 at 07:30 pm to 11:45 pm

UTC-04:00

Location

Near Union Square, Address in email confirmation additional info section | New York, NY

Turn up the volume! Turn eargasms to somatic bliss with this intensive workshop that explores the art & neuroscience of music and pleasure.
About this Event

Have you ever had a tune hit your ear just right... making you scrunch up your face in appreciation "---Ooooomphh!" ? Have you ever closed your eyes and felt the music to - quite literally - transport your body and soul to another time and place?

Music carries with it a lot of power - for example, the power to synchronize people to their environments and each other. The way music hits our limbic system is so unique and should be understood. On the one hand, a beloved melody can help us regulate our emotions and access a good mood any time, any where... In the same vein, a stray, haunting song can stir up buried memories and reduce us to tears in the supermarket.

This class is more than just putting on a song you like and having a good time. Here, we'll learn the art of surrendering to the flow of a song and savoring it in our bodies - taking it apart bit by bit. By the end of the song, your body will be saturated with sensation as the beat washes over you.

This is a great class for singles or couples - no matter your experience level with music or k!nk or intimacy. Whether you deepen your enjoyment of music for yourself or in connection to someone else... you are sure to leave with a new perspective on accessing pleasure through sound.


💡 What We’ll Explore:

🧠 Music & Your Brain: Learn some of the neuroscience behind music and our experience of it. Understand why its effect on our nervous system is so powerful and unique - and can be utilized to our advantage - not only for pleasure, but also for healing.

🎼 Eargasms – First, learn a surprisingly effective framework on how to maximize your enjoyment of music and tap into waves of somatic pleasure. You’ll m0an by the end of the song!

📝Crafting with Intention – We’ll dissect a song of your choice together - and workshop designing an inspired experience moving from song lyrics - to evoking emotions - to producing somatic sensations. ((Optional: BRING PRINTED OR SCREENSHOTTED LYRICS TO A SONG OF YOUR CHOICE TO WORKSHOP IN CLASS))

🎵 Playlists of Pure Pleasure – Learn how to curate a playlist that matches your scene style, intention, and emotional landscape. We’ll explore genres, lyrics, and instrumentation as tools for shaping somatic sensation.

💥 Rhythm & Bruise – Whether for k!nk or simply fluid movement, discover a flow channeling technique that turns music into your metronome - without conflicting with the natural rhythm of your body(ies).

🛑 Staying Attuned – Find the sweet spot of using music to elevate the connection between you and your partner - without becoming a distraction. Your attention is a powerful force that shapes the course of your engagement.

🧰 Tools for Music Lovers – Discover actionable tools, apps, and strategies for enjoying music solo or together.

  • Collaborative playlist building
  • Controlling co-listening sessions
  • Tools to sort playlists by BPM, intensity, or other criteria
  • Strategies to discover new music to fit your desires

🌟BONUS🌟 Enjoy 3 months of Spotify Premium on us! The code will be in your ticket confirmation.



Workshop Format:
  • Feel Free to Take Notes! If it helps you learn, we encourage you to bring a notepad to jot notes and reflections.
  • [Optional] We’ll dissect a song of your choice together - and workshop designing an inspired experience moving from song lyrics - to evoking emotions - to producing somatic sensations. ((BRING PRINTED OR SCREENSHOTTED LYRICS TO A SONG OF YOUR CHOICE))
  • Discussion and Practical Exercises: The workshop involves communication-based exercises and/or negotiated opt-in non-sexual touch.
  • Interactions: Participate to the extent of your comfort - you can also opt-out at any time and observe others!
  • Come Alone or With Someone! Come solo or bring a partner, a friend, a group of coworkers, your frenemies, or your entire polycule! During the exercises, you'll have the opportunity to interact with other students & switch partners, which allows for practicing with familiar partners and new acquaintances. We do not pair people up and encourage guests to make friends and engage to their level of comfort. Couples can stay paired the whole time or choose to practice with others.
  • Dress Code: Feel free to dress however you want, whether vanilla or ready to practice. There is a place to change outfits.
  • Who Can Come: This workshop is open to all gender identifications, sexuaI orientations, lifestyles, singles and couples. All experience levels welcome. 18+



Jam After the Workshop:

A Jam session is a practice participation-based gathering where we focus on practicing what you learned in the workshop or know within the context of the curriculum. The Jam is tailored to the interests of the students and may involve live demonstration scenes, guided practice time, and other applications of class material. Opt to engage to your comfort level or simply observe and learn. This is not a hookup-style event and the focus is on practice (Non Sex-Based).




Pricing:

Workshop: Early Bird $30, Classic $40

Workshop and Jam: Early $55, Classic $75


LATE ENTRY & REFUNDS Refunds must be requested 7 days prior to the event.

  • Doors open at 7:30pm and close at 7:40pm. Please be on time and text ahead if you are delayed. To protect the space and ensure a seamless experience for all, doors will close promptly. Late arrivals may not be admitted, and refunds will not be available.

Connect Ahead of Time!

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IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER
It should go without saying, but we are going to spell it out clearly nonetheless: k¡nk and lntimacy activities are inherently risky. Safety requires practice and cannot be guaranteed. By attending, you agree to participate at your own risk, conduct your own risk management, accept known and unknown risks, and agree to hold the event facilitators and facility harmless for any type of physical or emotional harm that may occur.


Keeping with Eventbrite guidelines, this event is not sex-based, hookup style, explicit, fetlsh or p0rnographic. This an educational workshop and experience with both theory and practical elements as explained in details above.


Where is it happening?

Near Union Square, Address in email confirmation additional info section, union square, New York, United States
Tickets

USD 33.85 to USD 81.88

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