Débauche - Itself

Welcome to Debauche-Itself, the ultimate fusion of pleasure and excitement! We cater to those who practice unconventional relationship dynamics such as consensual non-monogamy. Co-produced by Consensual Events and Life Itself, we've joined forces to curate an unparalleled night of indulgence.

The Venue

Our expansive contemporary Bushwick house with 20ft ceilings is spread across five levels with a backyard, rooftop, central air conditioning, and ample seating. You'll never experience overcrowding at Débauche - itself as we can, comfortably hold 200. You'll find the vibrant energy on the upper levels of the house. As you make your way down, the lighting and the mood get softer and more relaxed.

Consent Orientation

Starting at 9 pm for first-timers, you'll get acquainted with the venue, meet your hosts, and receive valuable insights to enhance your party experience with confidence. Those who arrive after 9 pm will get an orientation at the door.

Attire

We all express ourselves differently when it comes to the clothing we wear. We allow flexibility; however, some items do not qualify. Get creative and dress to impress: Fetish attire, latex, dapper, lingerie. Embrace your unique style and flair for an unforgettable night! The following items are prohibited: No Sweats, no T-shirts, no polo shirts, no Hoodies of any kind, Baseball caps, construction boots of any kind, or winter hats. We will not accept any sports brand clothing or skate sneakers. An example of acceptable shirts are collared dress shirts that button down from the neck. They can be short or long-sleeved—no baggy denim. Yes, you can get changed at the venue.

We have four showers with five bathrooms throughout the house along with a secure bag check.

Music Policy

Beats, Rhythms & Your Favorite Jams. DJs on the rooftop will be spinning different sounds to the rest of the house. To set the mood, we get very smooth with the Jazz, soothing with the reggae, Rhythmic with the Reggaeton, and deep with the house!

Nourriture et Boisson

You'll be spoiled with our assortment of food & drink. A complimentary barbecue on the roof with vegan and vegetarian options. There will be an abundance of tasty fruits and charcuterie. We'll have all the essential mixers from Cranberry to seltzer.

Health & Saftey

In the interest of community health and safety, we urge all attendees to prioritize the well-being of others. If you feel unwell, please refrain from attending the event. Prior to the event, monitor yourself for any symptoms of illness. Your cooperation is greatly appreciated. Anyone causing a nuisance, drunk, and disorderly behavior will immediately be removed from the venue. Any harassment or non-consensual contact will result in a permanent ban from all our events. Smoking will only be allowed in the backyard or rooftop. If anyone violates you or makes you feel uncomfortable, please bring it to the attention of one of the team members or security at the entrance.

Consent Policy:

• Consent is required for all physical activity.
• Ensure your partner(s) are in a position to give consent.
• Strictly adhere to the “no touching without permission” rule, even for hugs or friendly shoulder touches.
• Initiate conversations with potential partners, ensuring a mutual understanding and agreement on the boundaries of your interactions.
• Consent can be withdrawn at any time.
• If you wish to observe, please do so discreetly from a distance without disrupting ongoing play or scenes

Rules

• No phones in the play spaces. If you need to use your phone, please do so in the designated area's.
• Comply with the dress code; street clothes are not allowed.
• Demonstrate respect for the space and assist in maintaining its cleanliness.

Event Support

Guardians and Consent Advocates will be easily identifiable by their illuminated sashes. Do not hesitate to approach them if you have questions or encounter any discomforting situations.

Feel free to seek assistance if you feel lonely, confused, or uncomfortable.

To report a consent violation after the event, you can email [email protected] We encourage you to report any incident, no matter how small, and we will work together if any action needs to be taken.

Event Check-In

Upon arrival, ensure you have your ticket purchase confirmation email and your ID ready for check-in. Guests and first-time attendees should be accompanied by their experienced mentors. This event is strictly 21+.

*The address will be detailed in your ticket email confirmation from Eventbrite. The Eventbrite map will take you to the wrong location. Scroll to the very bottom of the confirmation email for the address. The last entry is at 1:00 am, and we will close the doors when we reach maximum capacity.

We look forward to hosting you!

If you have any questions or need assistance, feel free to email us at [email protected] or [email protected].

We're here to help and look forward to hearing from you and thank you for being a part of Débauche - Itself!

Transportation & Local Hotels

We're conveniently within walking distance of the Wilson Avenue L train. However, I advise those driving to come early to find free street parking.

We recommend the hotel below if you're traveling from a distance and need a place to stay. It's 15 minutes away, clean and modern, has nice rooms, and has a private parking lot, so you can quickly get Uber/Lyft should you want to drink.

Hotel 42

426 S 5th Street

Brooklyn, NY 11211

Host or Publisher Life Itself Events