DON’T GET CATFISHED: Dating Your Self With Discernment - Chandler Workshop

Growth doesn’t always show up honestly.
Sometimes old patterns return in better packaging: more confident, more evolved, more convincing.

Who This Workshop Is For

This workshop is intentionally designed for women, creating a space for shared language, lived experience, and reflection.

If you’re interested in 1:1 work or a private workshop, please reach out at [email protected].

In this workshop, we’ll explore:

• Why familiarity often feels like alignment
• How old patterns resurface dressed as growth
• The difference between curiosity and self-abandonment
• How to pause, discern, and choose yourself anyway

And, you will leave with:

• A take-home workbook to support ongoing integration
• Tools for recognizing patterns before you repeat them
• Discernment prompts you can return to when things feel “almost right”
• A gift designed to anchor the experience
• Greater self-trust in moments of choice and transition

This is a guided, reflective experience designed to help you engage new opportunities, identities, and relationships without losing yourself in the process.

This workshop is designed to stand on its own, or to pair intentionally with
It’s Not You, It’s Me: Breaking Up With Your Past Self
for a fuller arc of reflection and integration.

Guests who attend both workshops in the same day will also receive complimentary lunch.

If you’re interested in 1:1 sessions or private group workshops, please email

This isn’t about finding something new; it’s about recognizing what’s true and choosing from there.

Know what’s Happening Next — before everyone else does.

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