DARE to BE: A live experience for those done performing and ready for love that feels like HOME 💞

If the current performative dating culture has left you feeling lonely, anxious, exhausted, and longing for something real…
I created something SPECIAL for you.
A deliberately slow, embodied evening designed for you to feel seen, held, understood, safer in your body, and hopeful about meeting people who feel like true HOME.
You’ll leave feeling more connected and clearer about your needs, desires, boundaries, and thinking: ‘Wow… that restored my faith in dating, connection and myself.’
𝐖𝐇𝐎 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐒 𝐈𝐒 𝐅𝐎𝐑
DARE TO BE is for you if:
You’re DONE with performative dating,
the normalised hookup culture,
the apps that make you feel like a product on a shelf,
the ghosting that makes you question your worth,
the constant decoding of mixed signals and ambiguous situationships.
And if somewhere underneath the disappointment and the guard you've built up, there's a part of you that still believes.
Not in fairy tales or in perfect matches delivered to your door.
But in the POSSIBILITY that different kinds of people exist.

𝐖𝐇𝐀𝐓’𝐒 𝐏𝐎𝐒𝐒𝐈𝐁𝐋𝐄 𝐅𝐎𝐑 𝐘𝐎𝐔
That somewhere out there, there is someone who will feel like home to your nervous system.
Someone with whom you don't have to perform, chase, decode, or shrink.
Someone who is also looking for somebody like YOU. The true you. Including the weirdest side of you.
When you stop entertaining confusion,
the surface-level interactions,
and the performative connections,
you stop feeling emotionally homeless, and begin to inhabit your own home within.
At peace, with ease, and able to recognize what genuinely aligns with you.
When you stop abandoning your truth to keep connection alive, something remarkable happens.
The wrong people stop feeling so compelling.
And the right people become easier to recognise.

𝐖𝐇𝐀𝐓 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄𝐒 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐒 𝐃𝐈𝐅𝐅𝐄𝐑𝐄𝐍𝐓
This is NOT another speed-dating mixer where you collect Instagram handles and leave feeling emptier than when you arrived.
𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐫𝐞𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐲. 𝐓𝐨 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞. 𝐓𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰𝐬 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠.
Because the way we date today has become increasingly disembodied…outsourced to algorithms, diluted by screens, disconnected from real-time human presence.
So in a world where we relate more easily to phones and AI than to humans,
this space is a deliberate interruption.
A chance to remember what it feels like to be seen, to be felt, to be vulnerable... to simply BE, without rushing, proving, or editing yourself.
This experience is about how you relate, not who you leave with.
𝐖𝐇𝐎 𝐘𝐎𝐔'𝐋𝐋 𝐌𝐄𝐄𝐓
The people who come to DARE TO BE are not looking for another night of small talk.
They are thoughtful, emotionally aware, curious humans who are tired of surface-level connections and hungry for something real.
People who value honesty over performance.
Presence over mind-games.
Grounded presence over dysregulated chemistry.
People who also long for a relationship that feels like home.
𝐖𝐇𝐀𝐓 𝐖𝐈𝐋𝐋 𝐒𝐓𝐀𝐘 𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇 𝐘𝐎𝐔
Relief.
Relief from performing,
from trying to be attractive enough, clever enough, desirable enough
from decoding mixed signals and second-guessing every interaction
Relief from questioning whether there's something wrong with you.
And alongside that relief, you’ll leave with a felt-sense experience of being
- seen in your truth and still feeling safe
- more present in your body, less noise in your head
- more clarity about what is and isn't a yes for you
- more at ease when you meet someone new
- more attuned to your boundaries in real time
- more capable of interrupting the cycles of spiralling, overriding yourself, or shutting down
In short, you’ll leave with a nervous system that feels more regulated, more grounded, more at home in yourself.
And that changes everything downstream.
𝐖𝐇𝐀𝐓 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐄𝐕𝐄𝐍𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐋𝐎𝐎𝐊𝐒 𝐋𝐈𝐊𝐄
🎶 18:00 – Arrival & Grounding
You'll be welcomed into a space designed for presence. We'll begin with a brief grounding practice to help you land in your body and leave the noise of the day behind.
💃 18:30 – Landing in the body
where you tune into your own sensations, needs, desires, boundaries, and inner experience through dance and music. Because across cultures, dance has always been part of how humans connect, bond, and communicate. And because connection feels different when you're present to yourself
(Don't worry, you won't be put on the spot. This is about YOUR experience, not performing for others.)
🚾 19:30 – Small breath
If you want to use the restroom and enjoy some nourishing snacks. This is the time.
💬 19:45 – Speaking your truth
where you'll rotate through intimate conversations in pairs and small groups, held by The Path to Love card deck I created as a companion for those who refuse to keep trading authenticity for belonging.
The kind of conversations that usually take weeks or months to arrive suddenly become possible.
🎸 21:15 – Live music breath
My husband (@jamievalley) and our guest Ria (@riasound_) will delight you with their voices and live guitar.
🕊️ 21:30 – Integrating the lived experience
where we gather in a sharing circle to let the experience land, integrate what surfaced, and name what wants to be carried forward.
Because the point is not only what happens in the room.
It is what stays with you long after the night is gone.

𝐘𝐎𝐔'𝐑𝐄 𝐈𝐍 𝐂𝐎𝐍𝐓𝐑𝐎𝐋
Everything here is an invitation. You can always opt in or out, pause, or take space when you need it.
The intention is not to chase chemistry.
It's to build safety within, reconnect with your true self, and witness what becomes possible when you meet others from that place.

𝐖𝐇𝐀𝐓 𝐏𝐑𝐄𝐕𝐈𝐎𝐔𝐒 𝐏𝐀𝐑𝐓𝐈𝐂𝐈𝐏𝐀𝐍𝐓𝐒 𝐀𝐑𝐄 𝐒𝐀𝐘𝐈𝐍𝐆
"This has been by far the best dating event I've ever attended in Copenhagen. I got to witness myself in connection, feeling my boundaries, and staying with my own experience, while also having quite profound and beautiful interactions."
"Dear Linet! Thank you again for creating such a wonderful space and experience for all of us. It's been one of my best experiences in Copenhagen ❤️ So grateful. Looking forward to your next one. "
"I loved the feminine energy in the room. The openness to receive, to give, the presence."
"I've used a lot of these types of connection card decks, but this one is another level."
"The music is superb. I love how it feels in the body. Like a homecoming."
"I love the questions from the card deck! They bring so much depth to the conversations. We needed more time for each round!"

𝐏𝐑𝐀𝐂𝐓𝐈𝐂𝐀𝐋𝐈𝐓𝐈𝐄𝐒
⏰Arrival
Doors open at 18:00.
We’ll begin together shortly after, so arriving on time matters for you to have some time to settle and to prevent interruption.
💸Investment
280 DKK includes guided somatic practice, live music, light snacks.
Limited capacity to 20.
🚻Age range and gender balance
Rather than setting strict age limits, the space tends to resonate most with people in a similar life stage: single men and women who are done with the BS of the current dating culture, and ready for REAL connection
📌What to bring
Comfortable clothes you can move and sit in.
Your curiosity and openness to experiencing something different
❓GOT QUESTIONS
If you’re unsure whether this space is right for you, you’re welcome to reach out before registering.
🔖A note on the space
This is an alcohol- and substance-free environment, held with care and respect.
Light snacks will be available -because embodied humans still need to eat ;-)
𝐖𝐇𝐘 𝐈 𝐃𝐎 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐒, 𝐍𝐎𝐖
I’m Linet, a Cuban-born, Copenhagen-based somatic dance facilitator, trauma-aware relational practitioner, creator of The Path to Love card deck, and founder of Naked Soul Coaching.
7 years ago when I arrived in Denmark, I quickly became disappointed of the dating scene. I was single and hopeless, on the verge of giving up on love.
But I didn’t give up. I began to approach relationships radically differently.
And I saw what became available when I dared to embrace my truth and honour it.
When I stopped editing myself to be liked…
I found love. Or better yet, love found me. And here we are, almost 5 years later…
Building a life. A business.
Raising our daughter, Libertad, who is my biggest drive for this work I do.
Today I’m devoted to helping people build relationships that feel safe, nourishing and secure, without trading their authenticity for survival, peace and belonging.
So I created DARE TO BE with my husband because we want to hand a different culture to our daughter.
One where she doesn’t have to perform or disappear to be loved.
𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐃𝐘 𝐓𝐎 𝐃𝐀𝐑𝐄?
Lock your space here 👉🏾 https://ti.to/naked-soul-events/dare-to-be-dating-embodied-3
See you inside!💜