Couples Tantric Massage Hybrid 16-Hour Training
Schedule
Sat, 14 Feb, 2026 at 12:30 pm to Sun, 15 Feb, 2026 at 05:00 pm
UTC-08:00Location
SoulCare Studios | Aptos, CA
About this Event
Couples Tantric Massage Hybrid Training
Learn the art of tantric massage and alllllll of the skills required to SAFELY SURRENDER and experience PRESSURE-FREE PLEASURE
- Without flying half way across the world
- Without getting naked in front of strangers
- Without the toxic binary of “divine feminine” and “divine masculine"
No more avoiding intimacy.
No more insecurities around sex.
SAY YES and learn how to hold and be held in deep, healing, pleasurable sexual space with two in-person classes AND three private online sessions
YOU WANT TO:
- Experience a deep sexual and spiritual connection
- Be an amazing and confident lover
- Safely surrender during sexual intimacy
- Feel absolutely NO PRESSURE to perform
- Give your partner deep pleasure and multiple orgasms
- Know bliss and ecstasy
- Explore sacred sexuality
Humans are sensitive to energy, so learn how to confidently hold space for yourself and your partner, and watch your sex life transform.
THIS HYBRID 16-HOUR TRAINING IS FOR:
- Committed couples at any stage who want to go deeper in their mental, emotional, sexual, and spiritual connection with themselves and with one another
- Queer and trans folk who want to experience sacred sexuality outside heteronormative, binary paradigms of "sacred masculinity" and "sacred femininity" with gender neutral terms and expansive, inclusive language
- White people and non-Indian-subcontinent folk who want to explore a tradition within more modern contexts (some versions have always been meant as a practice within modern life) with appreciation instead of appropriation
- People who have sexual trauma history, have grown up in religion, or exist in our rape culture-enabling society who want to learn a trauma-informed approach to tantric massage and practice
TRAUMA INFORMED. This means we go slow and at the pace of your body. By learning and recognizing triggers as well as how to resource, anchor, and ground on your own and with your partner, we build safety, trust, and offer opportunities to heal.
GENDER NEUTRAL & INCLUSIVE. This means you won't hear anything about "divine masculine" and "divine feminine" or binary genders. We honor people's pronouns and expression as well as the body parts we're born with, surgically embrace, and energetically embody.
INTERSECTIONAL. This means we acknowledge the systems of suppression that affect our sex, love, and relationships as well as our identity. We work with the myths, violence, and trauma of the culture we've been born into that don't represent our worthiness.
PLEASE SHARE YOUR ACCESS NEEDS. This means we honor neurodiverse, chronically ill, hard of hearing folk, and those with visible and invisible disabilities. We strive to make the in person and online space accessible and inclusive to your needs.
TO GET THERE, THIS EXPERIENCE INCLUDES:
- An in-person and at home training so you get the energy of the group AND so your skills don't stay in some tropical hideway...they're living and breathing in your bedroom
- Guided videos and guided audios for ongoing learning and exploration after you've completed the training so you don't have to remember everything
- Simple, step-by-step guidance for Sacred Setup & Preparation to make your space feel special so you can transform ordinary into extraordinary every week on your own
- The accessible and easy to understand 3-3-3 Tantra Intro for a foundation in tantric philosophies, principles, and practices so you can begin to feel grounded in what tantra is about before practicing tantra
- My Playful Holding Space Training for learning how to hold mental and emotional space for your partner before exploring physical and sexual space-holding with the Tantric Massage Setup & Positioning
- Learning and sensitizing to the strong reactions of stress cycles: Fight, flight, freeze, and fawn and how to feel them from within your own body and track to see if they're happening in your partner's along with a Sexual Grounding Practice to return to any time the person who is receiving tantric massage seems to be having a strong reaction
- Periodic reminders to check in with your Turn On Signaling System for sensitizing to your turn-on changing and learning what to do if you want to slow things down or speed things up so the experience isn't over prematurely or end with disappointment
- Naming what feels good through a Sensational Presence Practice and working with Four Sexual Feedback Questions for more pleasure without getting defensive or walling off inside
- To invite blood flow to get turned on more, get hard and stay hard, you'll learn the External Pelvis Dearmoring Process for tightness and tension in the body when you're offering and receiving to release what's holding you back from experiencing more and deeper pleasure as well as Loving & Caring Genital Touch
- Inviting pleasure in the body with different External Genital Strokes and Penetrating Pleasure Guidance for vaginal g-spot, cervical, a-spot, and p-spot orgasms as well as prostate massage and anal exploration while using the Eight Holistic Sex Tools
AND SO MUCH MORE....
TESTIMONIALS:
“Daniela is an amazing Sex & Intimacy Coach who really hears her clients and not only meets them where they are, but shows them how to reach new destinations that they didn't even know existed. We loved the massage techniques she walked us through and the fact that we could jump off the escalator at any time. She was very attentive and adjusted to our needs every time we met, which allowed us to feel absolutely comfortable and supported throughout our whole journey.”
-MR
“The Couples Tantric Massage Training opened new possibilities for our connection and was great quality time with my wife. Before working with Daniela, when my wife touched me I felt pressured to have sex and perform. Now we agree that touch does not come with expectations. This has already brought us so much joy and made possible beautiful moments that would not happen otherwise.”
-A. R.
SAY YES TO DEEP DEEP CONNECTION STARTING WITH YOUR Couples Tantric Massage Hybrid Training!
PRICE OPTIONS:
- $2,080 regular price or
- $1,999 discounted price or through February 7
- $1,917 early price or through January 31
Before Feb 14
🕑: 07:00 PM - 09:00 PM
Module 1: Intro to Tantra and Tantric Massage
Info: Complete Module 1 online on your own before we meet in person to learn my 3-3-3 Tantra Intro for a foundation in tantric philosophies, principles, and practices so you can begin to feel grounded in what tantra is about before practicing tantra.
February 14
🕑: 12:30 PM - 02:30 PM
Module 2: How to Hold Space
Info: We'll go through my Playful Holding Space Training for learning how to hold mental and emotional space for your partner before exploring physical and sexual space-holding with the Tantric Massage Setup & Positioning.
🕑: 03:00 PM - 05:00 PM
Module 3: Holding Space for Strong Reactions
Info: In this session, we'll Learn and sensitize to the strong reactions of stress cycles: Fight, flight, freeze, and fawn and how to feel them from within your own body and track to see if they're happening in your partner's along with a Sexual Grounding Practice to return to any time the person who is receiving tantric massage seems to be having a strong reaction.
February 15
🕑: 12:30 PM - 02:30 PM
Module 4: Holding Space for Curiosity
Info: We'll be naming what feels good through a Sensational Presence Practice and working with Four Sexual Feedback Questions for more pleasure without getting defensive or walling off inside. We'll also work with periodic reminders to check in with your Turn On Signaling System for sensitizing to your turn-on changing and learning what to do if you want to slow things down or speed things up so the experience isn't over prematurely or end with disappointment.
🕑: 03:00 PM - 05:00 PM
Module 5: Holding Space for Tightness and Tension
Info: To invite blood flow to get turned on more, get hard and stay hard, you'll learn the External Pelvis Dearmoring Process for tightness and tension in the body when you're offering and receiving to release what's holding you back from experiencing more and deeper pleasure.
Private Session 1
Module 6: Holding Space for Care
Info: Explore Loving & Caring Genital Touch after going through a Heart Connection Breath for Couples where you expand the love and joy and compassion in your chest.
Private Session 2
Module 7: Holding Space for External Pleasure Exploration
Info: Learn how to invite pleasure in the body with different External Genital Strokes while continuing to communicate with the Four Sexual Feedback Questions and my Turn On Signaling System. Deepen pleasure with the Eight Holistic Sex Tools.
Private Session 3
Module 8: Holding Space for Penetrating Pleasure Exploration
Info: In this ongoing DRESSED rehearsal, learn Penetrating Pleasure Guidance for vaginal g-spot, cervical, a-spot, and p-spot orgasms as well as prostate massage and anal exploration while using the Eight Holistic Sex Tools and communicating with the Four Sexual Feedback Questions and Turn On Signaling System
Where is it happening?
SoulCare Studios, 8035 Soquel Drive, Aptos, United StatesUSD 1917.00 to USD 2080.00





