Becoming Untouchable

Subject: 💖 The Greatest Love Story of Your Life

Dear THAT GIRL,

Have you found yourself running in circles when it comes to dating?

Tired of falling for Mr. Wrong?

Maybe you’re married but no longer sure who you are beneath all the “hats” you wear?

If you’re ready to embark on the greatest love story of your life, this seminar was created just for you.

Let me start by saying this: you did nothing wrong.

We, as women, have fallen through the cracks. The Church as a whole has sprinted away from this topic as if it’s the bald-headed stepchild that can’t come to the party.

But I’m part of that same Church—and I’m standing here, facing this “bald-headed monster” with big faith (and yes, a bald head of my own). 💁🏽‍♀️

So many of us have been taught that we can’t live a soft, fulfilled life until we meet “The One.”

(Don’t worry—that’s our next seminar!)

I used to be that woman. I was raised to be that woman. Our parents often meant well, but somewhere along the way, something crucial was skipped.

The deep love Jesus has for His daughters is woven all throughout Scripture. We’re compared to vision, diamonds, water, nourishment, creation, protection—the list goes on. That’s not an accident. That’s His divine design.

But instead, we were taught to idolize marriage or relationships as the destination—when they were always meant to be part of a much greater journey.

And in that trade, somewhere along the way, we lost ourselves.

As a fully recovered people-pleasing, wife-idolizing believer—I once parked exactly where you are now. I’ve watched, heartbroken, as women I love (and those I’ve yet to meet) compare themselves to others without ever truly knowing who they are.

When God revealed these gaps to me, it was like He put a battery in my back. He began showing me what The Dating Process really is—and to my utter shock, it was all about me.

Radical, I know.

You may not know me yet, but I’ve been praying for you since 2018.

I’m a single mom of two who has been through it. Less than ten years ago, I was homeless with my kids. I trusted Jesus with all my soul and walked through uncharted waters as He laid solid ground beneath my feet.

In 2020, in the height of the pandemic, I moved to Charlotte with two kids on my back—no job, just a location and BIG faith.

Every year I asked Him, “Why am I here?”

And every year He said, “Not yet.”

Frustrated but still trusting, I cried, prayed, and waited.

In that time, Jesus led me into the corridors of what I call “the big dark room”—you know, the one we all have and avoid. I had to face it with Him, or I wouldn’t have made it. (Unhealed and unchecked trauma can and will destroy you.)

In that sacred space, He showed me how a true Gentleman behaves. Even in correction, I felt loved—as a daughter. That’s when I realized just how much He loves me.

I am His daughter.

I had it all wrong before. This is love—what He gives. I had been thirsty for so long, and He filled me. He doesn’t break little girls. That was never Him.

He gave me a fire that takes your heartbreak personally—and refuses to quit. That’s how much He loves you.

Too often, we start in the wrong place—focused on the man, the table, what we bring, what we want, what we don’t like—when we should have never started there in the first place.

That stops today.

If you’re tired of doing it your way and ready to give God’s way a try, this event was tailor-made for you.

The stretching, the tears, the years—I’m gifting them to you, refined and packaged, to help you stand strong in a world that tries to define your worth and still dares to kiss you goodnight.

No more rushing into marriages out of fear of an invisible ticking clock. That’s just the enemy trying to steal your love story.

Not on my watch! (Insert Iyanla table slap here 👋🏽)

This isn’t just about finding love with another person.

It’s about rediscovering the greatest love story you’ll ever live—the one between you and Jesus.

Because He knows His little princess best. 💕

It’s time to remember who you are.

It’s time to meet Little You again.

She misses you dearly.

She knows you deserve nothing less than someone standing outside your window in the rain, holding up a boombox, singing (badly) “Soon As I Get Home” by Babyface. 🎶

My mission is to remind you of this truth until you believe it with every part of your heart and soul:

🌹 You are the greatest love story of your life. 🌹

With love, laughter, and a whole lot of Jesus,

Your Favorite New Bad & Bald Titi,

Brielle 💛

P.S. Please bring one picture of yourself between the ages of 7–11 (it can be on your phone).

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Host or Publisher Brielle B.