Authentic Dating San Francisco

Step away from the apps and discover a more human way to connect. Returning to San Francisco this December by popular demand, Authentic Dating offers an evening of meaningful conversation, play, and connection with a diverse mix of open-hearted people.

Throughout the night, you’ll take part in a series of guided encounters designed to help you drop the small talk, be yourself, and explore different layers and flavours of connection. Come meet new faces — and perhaps spark a winter flame. 🔥

This event warmly welcomes men, women, and non-binary people aged 18+, both monogamous and non-monogamous.

Join us if you’re looking for:

✨ Conversations that go deeper than small talk
✨ Exciting new connections — romantic or platonic
✨ A chance to explore and challenge your assumptions
✨ A substance-free, inclusive environment
✨ Playful yet sincere communication activities
✨ Tools you can use in your dating life beyond the event
✨ A relaxed space where you can simply be yourself

You’ll be guided through four unique interactions, some chosen at random and others by your own selection.
Each includes clear, simple prompts designed to help you share authentically and connect over what really matters.

Every round lasts about 10–15 minutes. After each, you’ll have the option to discreetly exchange contact details on paper — please bring your own pen.

Consent and comfort are central to the experience: you always decide how much you wish to share, and participation is entirely voluntary at each stage.

Authentic Dating events have already taken place in SF, as well as Amsterdam, Berlin, Vienna, Copenhagen, London, Bristol, Edinburgh, Glasgow, Montreal, Auckland, Wellington, Christchurch, Melbourne, and Sydney.

“This has been the most positive experience I’ve had meeting genuine souls with the intention of finding love or romance for over six years.” — Lisa

“The activities created very real bonds — both with others and with myself. Many emotions arose in the safest, most welcoming environment.” — Jackson

“A wonderful workshop. I left with a renewed sense of self-worth and clarity about what I truly want. It’s the perfect antidote to app culture.” — India

“A beautiful, safe space that quickly fostered presence and belonging. Though everyone was a stranger, I felt deeply connected by the end.” — Tom

“Thank you for bringing together such open-minded, aligned people. It was a genuine pleasure.” — Juan

“Authentic Dating reopened an old window for me in a new way. So much fun — and I met someone very special.” — Bridget

Available via Eventbrite — limited spaces.

• $45 Low income
• $55 Medium income
• $65 High income

Book early to secure your place!

Why are tickets sold by income? 💰
In order to make the event as accessible as possible, there are three ticket types available, depending on the level of income you feel you have. It is up to you to decide how much you would like to contribute to the event.
If you would really like to attend but do not have the funds for the lowest ticket option, please get in touch and we can figure something out!

📍 Location: HeartLab, 3095 21st St, San Francisco, CA 94110, United States.

🕰 When: Tuesday December 9, 7.30pm - 10pm (arrive by 7.30pm sharp — no latecomers)

💃 Dress: Whatever makes you comfortable. The venue is shoes-off with floor seating.

☕ No Substances: Stricly an alcohol- and drug-free space. Complimentary tea provided.

💬 Language: Facilitated in English.

💸 Refunds: Tickets are non-refundable but may be transferred to a friend.

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